Anal Sex: Did She Want It?

This is an account of a true event rather than a story. Most of my stories are comprised of a significant amount of fantasy; However, all of them have some factual elements too. I like to intertwine real events and fantasy as it makes it more erotic for me. The incident that I describe below is 100% factual. It recounts an episode my wife and I had just recently.

My wife and I have a very good sex life. We do some role play. We watch porno together which gets her quite excited. We have experimented a lot. It has always been just the two of us. She has kept our sex life exciting over the years of our marriage.

I must admit that there are times where we will go through periods where it gets routine, but every now and then she will come up with something new and it lights a fire in me.

She likes anal sex (and so do I). She was the one that suggested we try anal sex. We tried anal for the first time a few years into our marriage. I was giving her oral sex and she asked me to go lower and eat out her ass. I was willing to try anything, that would arouse her, so I readily moved down and ate her ass. She loved it. She went wild with my tongue in her ass. This anal passion evolved into full anal sex with me fucking her in the ass and after several years of me fucking her she turned the tables and started fucking me with a strap-on. That is just one example of her exoticness. The sex with her is very good and at times extraordinary.

There is one complaint. She is the one that dictates our anal sessions. I'll try to initiate anal and often she will shut me down. Our typical foreplay scenario before we have anal is me giving her a back run. I usually sit on her legs as she lies in the bed on her stomach. I rub her back work down her butt and legs. When I finish her feet, I return to her ass and focus there. Once at her ass I will slowly work toward her anus by lightly brushing her genitals. I'll get more deliberate, and my anticipation and excitement will build as I proceed. As I get bolder, I'll start thinking 'holy shit she's going to let me this time'. At this point she will let me know if it is ok to proceed or she will say "no butt play tonight". She only says something if she doesn't want me to continue. She will tell me no or she will remain silent. Silence is best.

If she remains silent, I continue, and the indirect brushing becomes more deliberate. I begin to linger longer on her anus and labia. I begin to spread her ass cheeks to get a good view of her pink anal ring. I might wet a finger and rub the slippery saliva around her anus. I'll grab a cheek of her ass and begin to bite, suck, and kiss it. After spending some time with my mouth working her ass cheeks, I'll work my way to her anus and slide my tongue across it. By this time, I know I'm in and it's going to develop into a full anal night.

I'll eat her ass until she starts talking. She will tell me how good it feels but what she really wants is my big cock in her ass. I'll wait until she starts begging for my cock. After I've had enough of her ass, I'll mount her. Many times, she will move to the edge of the bed, lay on her back, and have her legs dangling over the edge. I'll stand on the floor between her legs. I pull her legs up and rest them on my shoulders. She will use the vibrator on herself as I fuck her in the ass. She always cums this way. It is super exciting for me too because I can watch my cock continually penetrating her ass as I watch her tits sway with each of my thrusts forward. It is a very erotic image watching her below me getting an orgasm as my cock pounds into her ass. Our anal sessions are always very erotic, and I think it is more exciting for me because I never know if we are going all the way or not. She calls the shots. I would never think of forcing anything on her or ever want to.

As I previously stated we do go through periods where it starts to get too routine. The last several months we have been going through that type of phase. The last time we had a good hot extra erotic sex session was when we were on vacation in Jamaica. That was a hot night with good videos and anal for both of us. That was in April and its July now. The sex since has been good, but I need exceptional more often than every three to four months. Our routine has become some foreplay maybe some nipple action, I'll fuck her and if she doesn't cum, which is most of the time, she will finish up with her vibrator while I suck, lick, and bite her tits...

This night I knew we were going to have sex. I was going to ask her if she wanted to watch a porno as these usually get her going which leads to exceptional. I didn't ask because it never felt like the right time. Later that evening she asked me if I wanted to take a shower with her. I didn't really want to because I knew what that meant. Shower sex means I'll get a soapy hand job or cum sliding it in her soapy ass crease, and she will get nothing because she never does in the shower. Shower is just to appease me and get it over with quick. I didn't really want shower sex that night, but I thought its better than nothing, so I agreed (I'm weak when it comes to sex).

It was around 10:00pm when we got in the shower. We started out by washing each other first she did me then I did her. After washing we started making out. Our soapy bodies were rubbing together, and we were sliding our bodies against each other. She reached down and placed my cock between her legs. She squeezed her legs together and started pumping her hips and pelvis on my cock. I started thrusting back at her. We did this for a while when she turned around and pushed her ass against my cock. It slipped between her legs she clamped again, and we began to thrust at each other. She was really thrusting her ass backwards hard at my cock. This got me inspired and I started pounding back at her harder. We did this for a while and she probably thought this was going to get me to cum because the soapy between the legs fuck usually works, but this time it wasn't going to as my heart wasn't in it. It felt good but it wasn't going to get me there. I wanted more than this.

She reached behind her ass grabbed my cock and placed it between her ass cheeks. She started gyrating her ass up and down along the length of my cock. This usually works because of the soap and the pressure on my cock being squeezed between her ass crease and my abdomen. I can make myself cum this way by pressing hard. I didn't do it his time. I let her do the grinding, but I didn't push back as hard as I usually do. It wasn't what I wanted. I wanted more this time. We did this for a while when I decided I was going to try and put it in. I usually ask if I can, put it in, but this time I just decided I was going for it, and she would have to tell me no.

I grabbed my cock in my hand, pulled it down toward her anus, and with my fingers directing I pushed my pelvis forward trying to insert it into her ass. I was forcefully pushing my cock at her, but it would go in. I back off and tried a different angle. She knew from my cock maneuvering what I was trying to do, and she didn't object so I continued. I was going to fuck her in the ass, and she was going to have to tell me to stop if she didn't want me too.

My cock was half hard and would bend when I pushed forward. I held it in my hand to keep it straight and tried to force it into her. I wasn't sure I was at her anus, so I reached in with my finger to locate it. I found it when my finger popped into her asshole. I moved the head of my dick to that spot and pushed forward with my hips. I think it started to go in but hit a lot of resistance. She was too dry, and my dick was bending too much to penetrate. I reached down grabbed my dick and straightened it. This usually pops it in, but it didn't go in. Her asshole wasn't lubed enough. I spit on my hand and rubbed it on my cock but the shower water rinsed it away too fast. I kept trying by thrusting toward her anus, but my efforts didn't work. Thru all this maneuvering and pushing and pressure she hadn't objected.

The position we were in made it difficult to get my cock in her ass. I pulled back and place my hands on her shoulders. I turned her body toward the shower bench seat. When she was facing it, I pushed upper body forward. She knew what I wanted and followed my nonverbal lead. She bent at the waist and leaned over and took hold of the bench to brace herself with her head down and ass up. At this point I didn't want to ask if I could put my cock in her ass, as she might say no, so I just did it. Again, I thought, 'If she wanted me to stop, she was going to have to tell me'.

She bent over willingly and placed her hand on the ledge to hold herself up. She spread her legs to and braced herself for what was to come. I looked down at her bent over body with her rear end sticking out and the warm shower pounding on her ass. The water splashed off her ass and was running down her back and the back of her legs. I looked down her back and saw her head hanging between her arms. She was in the perfect ass fucking position and she was poised there waiting for my cock.

With my now very hard cock in my hand I moved forward between her legs. With my other hand I used my thumb and index finger to open her ass by spreading her cheeks apart. I could see the object of my lust and I pointed my cock at her ass and guided it to her anus. I moved it in and around the area keeping forward pressure on her hole as the head of my dick tried to penetrate her muscle. I felt around with the head of my penis until I felt it give a little indicating it was going in. I pushed forward. I could feel it going in. I kept pushing but met a lot of resistance. I spit on my first three finger and rubbed the saliva on the head of my penis. The water from the shower was pounding down and washed much of the saliva away. I did get some on my dick as when I moved it to her anus it started going in. I felt it was an inch or two in her when I pushed hard to get it all the way in. She let out a yelp and said, 'stop it was to dry'.

I pulled out immediately. I reached down and spread my precum on my cock with some more saliva. The precum didn't rinse off as fast. I moved my body over to block the shower and pressed my cock forward. I had trouble finding her hole. I used my thumb to locate it. I rubbed my thumb on the head of my dick to get some precum then stretched it forward and it went directly into her ass. My thumb slipped in easier, and I spread the cum around her ring. I used my thumb as a guide to align my cock on her hole. The head of it started going in. It slipped in easier as I withdrew my thumb. I started pushing harder it was still hitting resistance, but it was going in.

I finally felt it slip past her ring muscle and slid all the way in. I was inside her and it felt incredible. I was still too dry as I could feel the resistance of her tissue on my shaft. I knew it was probably uncomfortable for her. I back off and almost pulled it all the way out. My cock wasn't half erect anymore it was unyielding, and I penetrated her again. She winced but remained silent. I started moving faster. I grabbed her hips and as I plunged into her, I pulled back on her hips and smashed my pelvis into her ass. I watched as the shock waves of my impacts travel up her ass. She wasn't saying anything. She didn't tell me to stop. She didn't tell me it was hurting, but she wasn't moaning in pleasure either. I didn't know what was going through her mind, but I knew how I felt.

It was incredible. After several pumps into her she started to become more lubricated. My precum must have been oozing as out each time I pulled back the head of my dick was nearly exiting her anus and it must have been leaving some precum behind. My cock was sliding easily now, and I could feel the slippery ring of her tight anal ring massage the length of my cock with each thrust. I could feel her inner folds envelope my shaft each time I entered her fully. Despite how great it felt I still wasn't close to cumming. I was pounding into her harder and harder. I knew she couldn't take much more because the initial penetrations must have been painful. I had to cum soon, so I concentrated on the ring of her anus sliding along my cock.

I looked down at her beautiful form. Her back, the curve of her waist, and her round ass are perfect, and I watched her form as my cock disappear between the cheeks of her ass. I took both my hands, grabbed her cheeks, and spread then apart so I could see my shaft penetrate her anus. Each time I withdrew I noticed my cock was pulling her anal ring tissue out. When I would push back in the ring of her ass would return to her cavity. I watched as her asshole stretched out then went back in again repeatedly. The image of her anal tissue flexing on my cock like that got my excitement elevated and my climax was approaching. I was close now and some hard fast thrust would push me over the edge. I started to pound into her ass relentlessly. I grabbed her hips and slammed them against my pelvis. After a half dozen of these slams, I was there.

I was thinking should I shoot in her ass, but I knew she hates when her ass leaks all night while she is sleeping. I pulled out, squeezed my cock, and jerked off while leaving stream after stream of my cum on her ass. I was done. I looked down at the gaping empty dilated black hole of my wife's ass that I had just ravished, and I felt fantastic.

She was quiet. She stood up, moved to the shower, and proceeded to rinse the semen from her ass. We finished rinsing and got out of the shower. We dried off and she never said a word. I knew she was mad as she was giving me the silent treatment. When we were lying in bed she finally spoke.

She said, "I just want to say that I feel like I was manhandled tonight."

With that she turned over to go to sleep.

I laid there feeling bad. Can a person feel bad and exhilarated at the same time? She never told me to stop, and I would have if she did. She let me continue so I took it all the way. Did I go too far? Was it a test and she wanted to see how far I would go? If that is the case, she found out.

I would never want to hurt her but taking her like that was exhilarating. This is out of character for me, but I find it even more exciting if she really didn't want me to do it. I was confused but I think this is another example where she finds a way to keep our sex life exciting. We have been married for a long time and this session rates high on my list of "significant sexual experiences".

PS The last several days she has been teasing me, in a good sexy way, about me manhandling her. I think I just might manhandle her again (if it's OK with her).