My lady is a sex goddess. She knows what she likes and how she likes it. She is a very strong and successful woman who LOVES to take charge, but on occasion enjoys a little submissiveness. It's hard for her to understand and accept why she enjoys playing a submissive role at times, because she is not submissive in any other area of her life. We've talked about it, and she came to the conclusion that it can be exhausting to have to be the strong career woman and super soccer mom all the time. Occasionally, in the bedroom, it's nice for her to not have to worry about what to do next and to just follow along.
It was she who first suggested it - I could tell how hesitant she was when she mentioned briefly that she enjoyed it and for a long time she didn't want to discuss it with me directly. But after a love-making session one time, I tested the waters with a couple light smacks on her round ass and she looked back at me with a delighted look in her eye. I still wasn't certain that I would try it again (although I knew I wanted to!) until she told me that those little smacks had been absolutely perfect.
We have playful rules that are broken from time to time. As these infractions add up, one of us suggested that it might be necessary to clear the slate with a good spanking. We joked and teased about it over the next couple months, and when we saw each other again the time was right for another spanking. She knew it was coming, but not sure when. I could see the anticipation in her eyes.
I was naked in our room when I told her the time had come. I reached out for her, removing her shirt and sliding her panties down her sexy thighs. I wanted her completely naked before she felt my touch. I sat down in the middle of the bed and instructed her to lay across my lap. I could see the excitement in her eyes as she complied. There is no doubt in my mind that she could feel my rigidness poking into her hip as she laid down.