Alli and Jim Round Two
I originally thought that I had made a mistake in letting Alli spend time with Jim in his hotel room in San Francisco. I could have just said a stronger "no" and not let her press me and I believe she would have been deterred. While I didn't let her tell me about what they did, as I didn't want to get torqued up, it was clear she had a good time. I could tell by the marks on her body when she showered after arriving home. She didn't try to hide them and didn't comment on them. I didn't ask. What she knew, but hadn't told me, was that he was moving from New England to the Sacramento area which is only an hour and a half from our home in Lake Tahoe.
In retrospect, I believe she spent the month after her SF fling trying to figure out how to get me to agree to her continuing to play with Jim. One night, totally out of the blue, she says "Jim has just moved to Rocklin and asked me if I could come down and help him set up his house. He's like you, totally unorganized, and he says he needs an organized woman to get the house ready. You okay with that?"
My response was pretty clear, "Fuck no!"
"Babe don't go off on me. I was just asking; I didn't think that it would be a big deal to you."
I ignored her response and went to the gym to work out. When I came back, she had gone to bed. I know the code to her phone which was plugged in in the kitchen. I opened her texts to see if there was any information I could glean. The last week of texts went like this.
Jim: Have you talked to Jay about spending some more time with me.
Alli: No. I want to but I think he will blow up.
Jim: So, are you too scared to even ask?
Alli: Come on, I am not scared but I am strategic. I am his wife and I know that he doesn't want me fucking around with you. Not an entirely unreasonable position. Especially after we pretty much snaked him last month. Let me try to deal with it.
Jim: Up to you, Alli. I'll be there next week and would love to spend the weekend with you.
Alli: I know. I would like that too. I'll let you know how it goes.
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Alli: I asked him tonight. He said "Fuck no!" Sorry Jim it's a no go.
Jim: Bummer. Maybe some other time.
Alli: We'll see.
I put the phone down and processed. The good news was she was direct and honest and there was no suggestion of her sneaking around with him. The bad news was that my wife wanted to have ongoing sex with her former boyfriend. She was asleep when I crawled into bed.
The next morning was like nothing had happened. She got the kids ready for school. Made breakfast and started doing her yoga. "Good morning, Jay." Was all she said. I returned the greeting and went to my office to work. My inclination was to let it go if she didn't bring it up again.... and she didn't until several weeks later.
We were in the hot tub and I was bobbing for boobies, a fun game we play sometimes with her highly augmented 38 D breasts. When I came up, I said "love those boobs."
She answered "All the boys do." A little verbal game she plays with me.
"Even Jim?" I asked.