A Swingers First Vanilla Bar Pick

I am a swinger and no stranger to orgies and group sex or sex with strangers. However, I was a vanilla virgin until recently. For many swingers, vanilla means someone who is not a swinger. I met my husband when I was sixteen years old so I never played in the vanilla world as an adult. I belong to a swinger site and that is a comfort zone for me. My husband and I do things differently - we each have an account on the same site but play separately. We are open on our profiles that we are married and playing separately, and we note the other's user name on the site so everyone knows we do have permission to play.

I was like a kid in the proverbial candy store when I became a swinger. I am not even sure how high the body count is, maybe best not to know an actual number. I have experiences that have rocked my world and found all my inhibitions flow away and with the right person and the right circumstance, I am experiencing things I never imagined I would even consider. My mind has expanded, I have met the most diverse and amazing people, and my husband and I share our stories, try new things, and our already hot sex life has gone through the roof. I think I have the perfect life.

I never expected in this new world to have relationships. Many formers have become just friends, or remain friends with benefits. I also never imagined falling in love with another man but it happened. I learned, and so did my husband, that we have room in our hearts for more than one person and we can share that with each other. Can it be any more perfect?

By chance I met Levi in a club on the site, not even related to sex. Levi is the hottest guy and we have the wildest adventures together. He is my perfect match on all things intellectual, humor, political, philosophical, literary, and on and on and on. We also found that we share many fantasies, and then whenever we pitch one to the other, it instantly becomes a shared fantasy. He had this vanilla fantasy that we made come true in Vegas and it was so hot and wild!!!

The fantasy is this - the bar at the hotel we are staying at. I find a vanilla guy and flirt, Levi is nearby so he can watch me in action. I lure the vanilla up to the room and fuck, and as soon as he is done and gone, I text Levi and he comes to the room and we fuck like animals afterward.

Levi and I meet in Vegas once a month and for twenty-four hours or less we fuck ourselves ragged. We might catch a brief nap when the sun comes up. Our time is interspersed with repeatedly fucking each other, and talking like teenagers in love, and hitting a different sex club each time.

We tried the vanilla fantasy on one trip but I chickened-out. It hit me that there was the very real possibility of rejection and I could not go through with it. Plus, when we would be in too close proximity in a bar, people could pick up that Levi and I have a very palpable chemistry. Once a man to Levi after I had left that he should go after me as he could detect the chemistry. The fantasy did not happen on that trip but we happened on something neither one of us had ever considered or thought interesting, totally spontaneous, and had wild sex afterward so all was not lost.

The next trip we tried again. I felt so nervous and insecure I went back to the room and said I wanted so much to make this fantasy a reality with Levi (because it turned me on just as much as him) but could not go through with it. I was so upset and Levi was so wonderful and comforting and genuinely did not want me hurt. He is a great protector beyond all the other wonderful things he is to me. In the lifestyle I am a very confident and secure woman, but in the adult vanilla world I was not, and I hated this weak side of myself.

I gave up and told Levi I simply could not make this fantasy come true. He held me and told me the fantasy was not important - he wanted to be with me and for the two of us to have a great time, but not at the expense of self-esteem. Shortly afterward when I felt composed I went down to the casino and sat at a slot machine. Well, giving up on the idea and not forcing it to happen did the trick. Next thing I knew one very hot smokin' vanilla sat down next to me and within five minutes, we were on our way to my room. Totally spontaneous, and I did not have to try! Giving up the expectation and giving up the fantasy was the KEY for it to happen!

Levi only knew I had disappeared and he missed seeing me flirt with the hot guy. Levi eventually suspected I was in the room and he continually called the room but I did not answer. I kept telling the vanilla that my friend was going to want the room back so we had to hurry. Fast, furious, awesome, standing up, back against the wall hot sex with the hot vanilla!

The vanilla was a great guy and a wild fuck. Soon as he left I sent a text to Levi and he raced up to our room and while we were fucking I was whispering every detail, only stopping the story with my moans of pleasure. This just increased the intensity level for us beyond belief! God, it was so fucking hot and I was so excited it happened! I have no idea how many times I came.

Several hours later, I went down to a different bar in the casino and decided that it was safe to drink and had a few too many. Levi was chatting with a couple across the bar from me and next thing I knew, the same vanilla came back. We were flirting, talking, touching and I may have been drunk but knew I wanted more. I agreed to go back to his room this time and we were fucking on the bathroom counter and he picked me up and kept fucking me as we went to the bed. God, even better the second time!!!

The only mistake I made was that I drank too much, did not have my cell phone, and did not realize the vanilla's room was in a different tower. I was lost trying to find my room and without the cell phone, I did not have Levi, my beautiful protector to help me. I finally figured out how to get to the lobby and hoped that maybe I could figure out which elevator to take to get back to my room.

To my absolute amazement, and realizing the depth of our connection - the elevator door opened and my beautiful Levi was standing right there! Despite the fantasy, Levi wanted me to be safe first and foremost. This time he witnessed the flirting and saw me leave with vanilla. Since the second go round with the vanilla was even hotter than the first, Levi and I had even wilder sex back in our room afterward.

Such an amazing adventure when you let go of your expectations and fear as anything is possible, in a place where time has no meaning and pleasure abounds. More adventures to share about my other love, Levi, as we continue our monthly escapes from ourselves and our realities and drop our inhibitions and expectations and enter the pure sexual zone.