Hi there, first time posting on this sub but wanted to share something that happened to me. My name's Alishba, I'm 22 years old, Pakistani decent but brought up in North America. My husband John (32) and I have been married a couple of years now. I'm 5-1, dark hair, and about 140 pounds.
For starters, we have a very unconventional marriage. About a year or so ago we were struggling with money. He's the only income earner in the house and I don't have a job. But with the help of a friend and after hours and days of discussions with my husband, we had decided to allow me to date other men in exchange for money. My husband found the idea of me sleeping around very hot and it made our sex life even better. Plus, the money was really good too.
I've been with several men over the past year and a bit and it has helped us financially quite a bit. As we got deeper into the life, I started to sign up for online dating just for fun. We had kept this part of our life secret for obvious reasons, until I happened to match with his friend Peter who I had met on several occasions.
Peter and I started texting and he had asked me what I was doing on a dating site. I didn't want to tell him too much about how I dated men for money, and I really wasn't expecting Peter to pay me. That being said, I always thought he was cute and had a thing for him. So I told him that me and John had an open marriage and were free to date whoever we wanted. He said that it was too weird for him, especially considering it's his friend. I respected that but we kept on talking casually.
I didn't mention any of this to John. At the beginning I used to tell him about every guy I would see but because it's become such a regular thing and a part of our life, we don't talk about it as much. Days went by and Peter and I kept texting back and forth, until he asked me whether I would be interested in going out. I said yes and we set up a date.