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Accidental Lesbians
Chapter One: Alternatives to Intercourse
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Author: Mandy1983
Subject: How to make first time anal sex easier
Mandy1993
Posts: 1
Registered: 10-19-2012
Location: Guess
posted on 10-19-2012 at 19:18
How to make first time anal sex easier
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My friend and I are thinking about having anal sex with our boyfriends. We don't want to give up our virginity yet, and we don't want to take the chance of getting pregnant (my mom would never let me go on the pill).
So, we decided to let them have anal sex with us. I want to make sure that it doesn't hurt and that I don't have to stop in the middle. I know guys hate that a lot. Can anyone tell me how I can make it easier and not hurt?
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WellHungOne69
Posts: 147
Registered: 12-10-2010
Location: Deep inside you
posted on 10-19-2012 at 19:46
Take it and like it!
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SexGuru4U
Posts: 1,672
Registered: 12-10-2009
Location: Left Coast
posted on 10-19-2012 at 23:37
Practice, patience, communication and lubrication are the keys to a pleasurable anal experience.
To make anal sex enjoyable you need to be relaxed. The anus is comprised of two muscles: the external sphincter and the internal sphincter. If you are nervous or tense, these muscles will tighten up and it will hurt. Foreplay is very, very important―take your time and don't force it.
Lubrication is also very important. Your body doesn't produce any natural lubrication there, so you need to provide your own. More is usually better, especially when you are just starting out. I recommend using using a water-soluble lube, my girlfriend likes Astroglide, so that's what we use.
You should start out with a very small, thin butt plug, after you get used to that, you can use a little bigger one at the end of your sessions. Then after you are comfortable with that, move up to a toy that's about the same size as your boyfriend's cock.
It should never, ever hurt. If it does, you are going too fast and need to slow down, or try again another day.
Remember, it's your body and you are the one in control. Your boyfriend needs to understand this and needs to understand that he has to play by your rules.
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Oct 20
Private Message
From: Mandy1993
To: SexGuru4U
Subject: Anal Advice ~ Help!
Hi Sexguy,
Thanks for all of the great tips. Unfortunately we don't have any toys like that, and we live in a small town, so there's no place to buy those kinds of things. Besides, my mother would kill me if she found anything like that laying around (she goes through my stuff because I got caught smoking pot one time). Would it be okay to use the handle of a hair brush or a sharpie?
Thanks : )
Mandy