Hi! It's Kathy again. There aren't many holidays that I truly enjoy. They're mostly family-oriented and the same thing every year. Now, Valentine's Day is a little different. It's all mine. A day consumed with love and sex.
Since I was old enough to date, I've always made Valentine's Day special for me and my man. I can remember only one Valentines when I wasn't dating anyone and it was the most horrible day of my life. I remember crying all night! I promised myself then, I would never spend this day alone again!
I've been seeing my boyfriend Dave for almost three years and he moved in with me about a year ago. Everything was super with us and our relationship is stronger than any other relationship I've ever had. We have even talked about getting married for the first time very recently... So, things are good.
Valentine's Day was only a month away and we were already talking about things we wanted to do. Dave suggested we go to a nice Casino/ Hotel and see what kind of trouble we could get ourselves into and I loved the idea. For the next week or so, we would party in bed real late at night and Dave would whisper in my ear of all the naughty things I would be doing....and with who... Gosh! I love our sex life!
One of the sexy role-play scenarios he began bringing up was of all of his friends being so jealous around Valentine's Day because none of their girlfriends took it as seriously as I did and how they would all kill for one Valentine's night with me. I liked that fantasy! We played around forever including all his friends into our fantasy! It was hot!
Two days before our big night out, Dave tells me the worse thing imaginable has happened. He needs to leave town for our night out and he couldn't believe it. They were starting to lay people off and if he doesn't go along, he thinks he might get the axe! I didn't care if he got the axe! It was Valentine's Day!
I cried right up until he left with a couple of bags packed, promising he would make it up to me in just 2 days and to please forgive him. I was so angry I didn't even kiss him goodbye! He told me that the room is still reserved and maybe I should take one of my single girlfriends with me and have a wild time. I almost hit him after that suggestion.
Maybe I was being silly but I couldn't stop sobbing all Valentine's Day. At around 6 pm, Dave's close friend Tory called me and tells me to stop sulking and that he promised Dave he would take me out for a nice Valentine's Dinner. Before I could tell him no, he told me he was 15 minutes away and he hung up. Now I was doubly pissed at Dave! So pissed that I needed a drink! Then two, then five!