All you young white girls or white wives who have thought about it, but are too scared to try a black man, I don't know why your waiting.
I personally started late in life, when my husband and me were still living in Michigan. We had been having a rough time in our marriage, with some arguing and stuff, and of course not that much sex. Although we both loved each other, living together for over 25 years can bring about boredom, and reasons for not having sex become easier to bring up.
There had been some accusations thrown back and forth, and to me it seemed like maybe a trial separation, or maybe even divorce might be in the picture.
We did not seek counseling, although I am sure it might have helped, but we did start having some serious discussions about where our life was headed.
I had a miscarriage early in our marriage and with complications, my tubes were tied so I couldn't have children. This of course didn't help to solidify our marriage any, so when Tom (my husband) had talked about maybe trying a separation, we could both see the hand writing on the wall so to speak.
I'm still not sure at what point bringing another couple into our lives was brought up (although I'm sure it must have been Tom's idea LOL), but when it had been mentioned, I don't think either of us were too thrilled about something like that, but once it had been said, I think both of us were probably thinking about doing it.
If you search my blogs, you will find three stories entitled "Our Swinging Days", where I described what happened when we started to seriously think about going out with a black couple, who were actually very close friends of ours. Anyways, if you read those 3 stories, it might give you an inside into why we ended up swinging.
Now back to the "to do it or not to do it" intro.
Since my husband has passed away, I have become a member of porn sites and posted many vids and stories. I have noticed that there are many other women on here who enjoy opening up about sex, and a vast majority of those talking about having sex with black men.
As my 3 stories indicated, having a black man entering my body was electrifying, and in some ways mind blowing. I mean, being married to the same man for so many years (and being in love), to then all of a sudden having a strange man entering my body and my mind, and him being black on top of that, it has brought back to me many loving memories.
Now of course, it is easy for me to relate back to those times and those electric memories of the great sex that we had, and then seeing so many posts on here about women... mainly married white wives, and young white girls, who have not yet experienced the thrill of a black cock entering their body for the first time...
Well... let me put it this way... to look down over my breasts while that black cock that is wet with my juices, sliding in and out of my body... I can only use one word to describe it... FANTASTIC!!
Then on top of that, knowing that my husband was not more than 5 feet away in the other bed fucking my black lovers wife, brought me to quite a few climaxes. Him, looking over at me getting a royal screwing (yes royal), and me seeing him fuck her black body was so exhilarating, that we had many talks about it, when going back home in the mornings. To be in my husbands arms while he was driving, and to being able to talk at length about both of our experiences, were probably some of our closest talks that we had in our marriage.