Meet Simran Sidhu, a six-foot-tall, curvy and sexy, deliciously thick and big-bottomed, brown-skinned and Black-haired Sikh Indian woman living in the City of Toronto, Ontario. Educated at Ryerson University, Simran is a fast-rising Manager with the Product Development Division of Excelsior Enterprises, a British conglomerate making headway in the North American Market from their new branches in the City of Toronto, Ontario, and the City of Miami, Florida. For the highly ambitious and career-minded gal, life is going great...
Simran Sidhu was born in the City of Hoshiapur, India, on November 7, 1996, and moved to the province of Ontario, Canada, with her parents in 2004. The young woman considers herself as Canadian as anyone and speaks English and French without an accent. Of course, Simran is fluent in Punjabi, the language which her conservative Sikh family spoke at home. After graduating from Ryerson University in the summer of 2021, Simran set out to make her mark on the world. TBM or Toronto Business Magazine recently profiled Simran for her accomplishments in the tech and business sectors...
In a magazine which profiles Black women, Chinese women, Latin American women and others, Simran Sidhu was proud to be one of a few Indian-Canadian women making a difference. The Toronto Business Magazine didn't just reach out to Simran to score diversity points. Simran was helping Excelsior Enterprises outpace their competitors on the global stage by proving to them that brown women and technology do indeed mix. Nothing wrong with being a smart, beautiful and ambitious woman who defies stereotypes...
At home, though, things are a bit dicey between Simran and her husband Sandeep Sidhu. Recently, Simran found a stash of porn magazines featuring men having sex with men, and after denying it for a long time, Sandeep admitted that the mags were indeed his. Simran was stunned to discover that her husband Sandeep is bisexual. The couple has started attending counseling sessions and are trying to mend things. Divorce is something Simran and Sandeep hope to avoid, as it's still taboo in the Sikh Indian communities...
"Sandeep, I am giving you one chance, if you screw it up, I will divorce you," Simran told her husband, after a long talk during which they discussed her feelings about his latent bisexuality. Sandeep took a deep breath and nodded at Simran. For most of his thirty years, Sandeep had known that he was sexually attracted to both women and men. Of course, since bisexuality is not considered okay among Sikh Indians, Sandeep kept it to himself, and prayed that it would go away. Life had other plans for the bisexual Sikh Indian gentleman...
"I want to make it work," Sandeep reassured Simran, while discussing the future of their marriage. After this event, the Sikh Indian couple looked into marriage counseling. That's how they met Dr. Omar Suleiman, a big and tall Black man of Somali descent. Educated at the University of Calgary, Dr. Omar Suleiman is renowned therapist and the author of various books on both religion and sexuality. The couple started meeting with the good doctor twice a week, and the sessions proved to be life-changing for them both...
"Folks, I want you to know that you're not alone, plenty of bisexual men have wives and families and successful careers, it's all about honesty and a balancing act," Dr. Omar Suleiman told his new patients during their inaugural session. Sandeep and Simran looked at the doctor, an impeccably suited, dark-skinned and handsome gentleman who looked like he meant business. Dr. Omar Suleiman's Ph.D. in Psychiatry from the University of Calgary hung proudly on the office wall...
"Thank you, doctor, I never cheated on my wife with other men, I repressed my urges and used the magazines to take the edge off," Sandeep said candidly, and Dr. Omar Suleiman nodded sagely. Simran looked at her husband Sandeep as he spoke about the loneliness he felt as a bisexual man in the deeply repressed and conservative world of the Sikh Indian community. There had been times when Sandeep considered ending his life, but his faith prevented him from doing so. Honor and integrity matter to the viewpoint of a traditional Sikh Indian gentleman...
"Doc, I love Sandeep, but I don't want to end up looking like a fool, some men who swing both ways do leave their wives for other men," Simran said firmly. Sandeep winced and shifted uncomfortably in his seat while Dr. Omar Suleiman, seated behind his stylish oak desk, jotted down a few notes and then nodded. The doctor took a deep breath and looked at Simran and Sandeep Sidhu for a long moment before addressing them. Certain matters require careful handling and a bit of unorthodoxy can be a good thing in the long run...
"Simran, I understand your fear, my wife Theresa had the same worries twenty years ago when I told her about my being bi, but we're still together, and happy," Dr. Omar Suleiman said firmly. The doctor smiled at his astonished patients. Sandeep blinked in surprise and Simran blushed, for she wasn't expecting such a revelation from the doctor. Dr. Omar Suleiman then pointed to a portrait of himself and his wife Theresa, a tall blonde-haired White woman, and their two daughters, Amira and Daria. Smiling, Dr. Omar Suleiman looked at his patients, awaiting their responses...
"No disrespect, doc, but that sounds like a tall order," Simran said, and the young Indian Canadian woman looked at the good doctor, then at her husband Sandeep. Both men looked at her, and waited. When Simran thinks of queer males, she thinks of the effeminate gay men she often saw in bars and clubs which she frequented while doing her undergrad at Ryerson University. Sandeep was nothing like those guys. He looked, acted and sounded like a normal, masculine guy. Why couldn't Sandeep be a straight man instead of a weirdo?
