On the occasional Sunday mornings in which I decide to run errands or go out, I notice a number of women who are dressed in their best clothes, usually going to or from church. I would find a significant number of such women attractive, but I would be hesitant to approach them, figuring such women would not be open to an erotic liaison. Despite the stereotype that religious women are extremely sexual, I was still doubtful they would be interested in me.
However, one particular Sunday at around ten in the morning, I took my laptop to a cafΓ© near my apartment to do some writing. It seemed like it was going to be just a normal Sunday, until I happened to look up from my computer to see a fair-skinned, dark-haired woman walk in. She wore a black blazer over a long, olive green dress, but that did little to hide her curvaceous body. She walked up to the counter, hips swinging slightly, to order a drink and sandwich, then sat at a table near mine.
I looked over at her table and noticed she set copy of the Bible on top of it. Normally, after seeing that, I would not have spoken to her, but when I noticed her looking at me and smiling, I knew I had to talk to her. I wasn't sure where it would go, but there was nothing gained by not doing so.
Gathering my confidence, I walked over to where she sat.
"How are you this morning?"
"I'm great," the woman said with a smile. "How are you?"
"I'm all right. I'm guessing you're heading to church?"
She nodded. "What about you?"
"Nah," I said, making both of us laugh. "Church isn't really my thing. No disrespect to it, though."
"Really?" The woman really focused on me after that. "I respect your opinion, but I'd like to know why. What's your name?"
"Martin. And you are?"
"Serena," she said. "You can bring your laptop and come sit with me if you want."
I went back over to my table and grabbed my computer, then took a seat across from Serena. Then, despite it being somewhat of a taboo subject to discuss with a new person, we conversed about religion. During our chat, I learned Serena was brought up Christian. Her parents came to the states from Puerto Rico, and they (and she) believed it was God which allowed them the fortune of being able to do so.
"Oh, you're Puerto Rican?" I asked. Again, she said so.
"I am, though I was born in the states. I'm guessing you were born here?" I told Serena she was correct.
She asked me about my own religious beliefs. I told her I was agnostic, which surprised her. She asked why, and I told her I simply wasn't convinced one way or the other. That, and I didn't think about it much.
"I respect that, even though I don't agree," Serena said. Then, she perked up. "Maybe you just need to find the right person to help bring God into your life. If you want, you can come to church with me."
While that sounded interesting, and I definitely had no problem spending time with an attractive woman no matter the context, it was important to let Serena know my intentions with her were not platonic. This time, I locked eyes with her, preparing myself to be straightforward.
"I have to be honest with you, Serena. When I came to sit with you, it wasn't just to make small talk or discuss religion."
Her eyes widened. "Why did you come up to me, then?"
"I'm sure you probably figured that it's because I find you very attractive. My intention was to get to know you a bit, but ultimately, I wanted to see if you were free to go out sometime this week."
I didn't expect Serena to react right away. I guessed she wasn't used to men being direct with her, especially not in a diplomatic way. She seemed like the sort of woman who normally encountered men who fell into two categories: men who were too nervous to state their intentions or uncouth catcallers. Finding a man who was bold enough to state what he wanted, while still engaging her in conversation.
"Martin, I'll be honest with you," Serena said after pausing for a bit. "You are an attractive man and I appreciate you coming up to me, but I'm not so sure about going out with you. I really think I should be with someone who has the same beliefs I do."
I thought. "I understand. Let me ask you this: how many men like that do you meet? How many religious men approach you?"
With a chuckle, she said. "Barely any. I haven't been on a date in a while. Plus, I've been working pretty hard lately, so ..."
"Exactly. Those sorts of men don't approach you, and you don't strike me as the type of woman who approaches men." She said she would never do that. "So you found a man who you think is attractive, and who thinks you're beautiful as well, so why not have lunch with me tomorrow? Just a lunch date, nothing serious. We can save that for later."
Serena laughed. "I'd like to get to know you more, too. You know what? I think I will meet you after all, Martin."
She mentioned that she worked downtown, and suggested a sandwich place near her job, which I said was fine. We exchanged phone numbers, then talked for a little while longer. Once it was a few minutes past eleven, she mentioned that she needed to leave for church. I told her I should be heading out as well.
Both of us walked out of the door, then agreed again to meet up on Monday at noon for lunch. Before leaving, we embraced, and while it was tempting to rest a hand on her surprisingly round ass, I kept it on the small of her back for the duration of our hug.
I let her go, then told her I was looking forward to Monday, which she echoed, and we both went our separate ways, though I turned around briefly to watch her as she walked, amazed at the sight of her pear-shaped body.
Despite her being a religious, "good girl" type, I could tell from the way her hips swung that Serena was a woman who really enjoyed sex. If anything, since she admitted to not going on any dates in a while, she may have been craving it.
If she was, I would be more than happy to give it to her.
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Monday, at 11 AM sharp, I heard my phone buzz. I checked it to see a text message from Serena, who wrote "Hey, it's Serena from yesterday. I was wondering if we were still on for lunch today?"
I wrote back: "Yes, definitely. Looking forward to it" then showered and dressed, then headed out. I'd get to the restaurant a little early, but that's fine; I usually prefer to arrive before my date does anyway, at least to ensure I get a good table.
Fifteen minutes before noon, I stumbled into the eatery Serena suggested, and took a seat at the rear of the restaurant to wait. To my surprise, I was nervous. I always tend to be whenever interacting with someone new, especially a woman whom I'm attracted to. I don't show it, but I'm usually always anxious during the initial interaction and first date.
This was especially true with Serena. I knew I had to be direct with her, but I wasn't sure how she would react. While she seemed like she wanted sex, I wasn't sure if she would respond positively to forwardness.