Apparently, according to stereotypes, as an Asian woman, I am supposed to be weak, submissive, and obsessed with pleasing white dudes. Well, that's definitely not who I am. For starters, I am fond of men of color. Pale and stale males definitely don't do it for me. My name is Tina Chang, and I'm a Chinese-Canadian woman living in the City of Ottawa, Ontario. I study Criminal Justice at Carleton University, and hope to become a police officer someday.
If you were to look at me, I would seem like the prim and proper Asian broad. I'm five-foot-eight, curvy, with light bronze skin, long black hair and light brown eyes. I always dress classy, think dark vests, white blouses and dark silk pants or stylish dresses. I work at a call center and make twenty dollars per hour. Since OSAP pays for my studies at Carleton University ( I didn't tell the Canadian government about my new job ) I can lead a pretty comfortable style of living based on my salary. When I'm not in class or working, I am practicing the ancient Art of Femdom, also known as female domination.
I met my current boyfriend/sub Stephen Vale one fine day in late September inside the campus library. I was working on an assignment for this Communications class I took as an easy elective, which turned out to be anything but. That's when this tall, handsome and well-dressed young black man came and sat at the computer to mine. The brother started typing away at a document on Microsoft Word and I marveled at his speed and concentration. Somehow, we ended up talking and exchanged numbers.
Stephen Vale was very charming but I found the guy way too eager to deal with. I don't like eager beavers. Not even handsome ones like Stephen, who as it turns out is originally from Montreal, Quebec. I was surprised to see a genuine Montreal-born Haitian scholar at a Capital-area university. Stephen came to Carleton University to study business administration, and the dude is quite ambitious. Well, I didn't pay Stephen any mind even though we talked on the phone a few times after our first meeting. You see, I had other things on the horizon.
I was involved with this guy named Ram Singh, a tall, handsome Sikh guy originally from the region of Calcutta, India. Ram came to the University of Ottawa to study civil engineering, and I met him while visiting my cousin Valerie Hoang on campus. I took a liking to the cute Indian dude, and since he liked me, we started hanging out. I always thought Indian guys were boring and uptight, but Ram surprised me with how open-minded and easygoing he was.
Sikh guys tend to be very traditional and fiercely proud of their religion and culture, so I didn't think Ram would be serious about me. Well, Ram and I began dating and he even introduced me to his parents, Mohinder and Richa Singh, a nice Indian couple that visit their son often from their hometown of Calcutta. The fact that Ram was dating a Chinese woman didn't seem to faze his parents one bit, and I took that as a good sign. I just hoped that when I told Ram about my other side, the Indian stud would prove to be just as open-minded.
There's simply no easy way for a woman who dabbles into BDSM to tell her vanilla boyfriend about her unusual interests. I like to watch porn with Ram Singh to get us into the mood before I sex him down. Well, one day, I put on a porn DVD featuring female dominants who fuck their male submissive types with strap-on dildos. I watched Ram's reaction as the unusual porn scene played out on his flat screen television.
