I have posted this on a website I frequent, but I wanted to share this with you guys as there are more people on here who might be reading it.
I have posted some stories where the word "nigger" was used a lot, and there were some anonymous postings calling me a racist and such, so let me assure you that won't be in this and following stories of our real life swinging.
But I wanted to defend myself, as a lot of people who get into interracial sexing use this kind of language, and if it turns you off, then please don't read it!
All this happened when we were still living up in Michigan.
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This was pretty close as to how my husband and i started into this stuff.
We had some marital problems, that came close to causing a divorce, so we started talking a little bit more openly about where our mairrage was going. I think we both could see that it was in trouble, and that we were losing the feelings we once had about each other.
I forget exactly how we got to talking about bringing someone else into our life, but we both agreed that our sexual needs were changing, and that something had to be added to spice it back up.
My husband worked with a black guy, and they were pretty good friends. Anyways, we ended up going out with them several times. And over the course of a month or so, we would go out for dinner, and then dancing.
I caught my husband more than once looking at her, with that look ( if you know what i mean ).
I must have danced with my husbands friend many times, before it turned to something more than just a friendly dance.
On one of those nights that we were out nightclubbing, i danced with him, and my husband was dancing with his wife. When all of us came back to the table after the dance was over, I could tell that my husband had a different look about him. He was a little flushed, and when I asked him what was going on, he told me that she had played with his butt, out on the dance floor, and had manuverd his leg inbetween hers. He told me he got very hard, and that she was smiling at him while all this was going on.
That night when we got home, is when we started seriously talking about bringing someone else into our sex life. We both agreed that it would be better that it would be them, rather than some strange couple, who we knew nothing about. Them being black, had nothing to do with them coming into our sex life. It was just kind of natural.