My boyfriend is Black. I Never dreamed I'd Ever get into an interracial relationship, but here I am. He is a wonderful man! Handsome, personable, a graduate of both Harvard and Stanford, and is in the same line of work as me, though with a different company. We met at some cocktail party, got to know each other some over drinks, chatted, saw each other around a few times later, talked more, and finally agreed to have a date. Both of us knew instinctively about interracial problems, and so were not wanting to jump into something. I guess I had known him 4-5 months before we ever went out.
Actually it was Me who broke the ice. We were talking after a conference and I just broke into the conversation and said that I thought we both probably wanted to know each other a lot better so could we get together sometime? He kinda hesitated, then asked if that evening would be ok. I gave him my telephone number and address and said pick me up at about 7 if that's ok. He said no problem.
We went to dinner, went to a park down by the waterfront in San Diego, and just walked around talking. He took me home, asked if he could call me. I said you better, or something. He left.
We had at least a half dozen dates before I invited him to my place, to fix him dinner, I said. We had dinner, and ended up having a lot more! He spent the night.
When we both knew, that night, that we were about to change this relationship to a sexual one, and there was no turning back, we both were nervous. He wanted me, and I knew for sure I wanted Him. But we didn't quite know just how to proceed. So we fumbled a bit, heading to the bedroom, but got there and undressed.
My God!!! When he dropped his shorts I saw the most unbelievable penis I had EVER seen! And huge balls which hung way down. By then I was naked too, and feeling somewhat inadequate.
Now I'd seen my share of dicks in my life, and some Big ones, so I had Thought (including my ex-husband). All white. Never Anything like this! Not even close! And it was just hanging there! My mind could Not comprehend what it might be like when erect. My amazement must have been obvious, and he said to please don't worry---that he would be careful with me, and if I didn't want to do this right now he would understand. I must have stammered out something about No, it was fine, I want to make love with you, it's just that....