Playing with taboo requires a lot of trust and hardiness, and a lot of us are turned on by the very thing that we loathe and fear. Many of us are sexually aroused by that which we feel repelled by. Consider the case of Stephen Valentin, a big and tall, burly Black man who is quite outspoken in his criticism of police, racial profiling, and North Americaâs changing demographics and culture.
This self-styled âracial defenderâ has a secret fetish that would surprise most people who knew him. Simply put, the brother is fascinated by White female dominance of the sexual kind. Stephen Valentin is a strong Black man who appears to be a very dominant personality at home and at work, but in the bedroom, he is quite the opposite. Well, it has been said that no one is exactly what they appear.
Stephen Valentin is a graduate student at Carleton University, and if one were to judge by his Facebook activity, the brother in question is trying hard to be the next Malcolm X. In his criminology classes, Stephen often speaks about racial profiling, the need for police reform and civilian oversight into judicial matters. From his hero-worship of Black female celebrities like tennis star Serena Williams, singer Alicia Keys and First Lady of the U.S. Michelle Obama, Stephen definitely seems like the type of brother who is looking for his Black queen.
Things are never what they seem, and most of Stephenâs friends would be surprised if they knew what he looked at on the Internet. A frequent viewer of the infamous BDSM website known as Kink, Stephen seems to gravitate toward a certain type of sexual activity. Videos featuring dominant White women and Black male submissive types totally tickled his fancy. For a strong Black man who condemns White racism and is quite vocal about speaking up for his rights, to be turned on by such things is the ultimate taboo.
Stephen is definitely not what most people would expect, thatâs for sure. When heâs not working at his security guard job, heâs in the campus library, writing fiction or browsing the web for the kind of porn he craves. Fortunately for him, the world of femdom ( female domination ) was expanding and becoming more racially diverse. The website Kink featured lots of scenes of White women and dark-skinned male submissive types. Stephenâs kink was becoming more mainstream.
Stephen was overjoyed about that. One of the earliest was when short, slender and fair-skinned blonde porn star Aiden Starr dominated the hell out of muscular, dark-skinned African American stud Jack Hammer. Stephen must have jerked off a thousand times to that scene alone. Lots of White female porn stars didnât like doing scenes with Black men, although that was slowly changing. The world of interracial porn was slowly becoming more mainstream, thanks to sites like Blacks On Blondes, for example.
Lots of Black guys loved the website Blacks On Blondes, and its affiliate Spring Thomas, which featured a beautiful young White woman with a Southern accent, who went around picking up Black guys and hooking up with them. Stephen was definitely no exception, and he did enjoy watching Spring Thomas get fucked by tall, lean and athletic, well-endowed Black porn legend Wesley Snipes. Yeah, the porn he loved was slowly becoming more mainstream, but Stephen still wasnât satisfied.
For a time, Stephen Valentin explored the BDSM scene in Ottawa. The few mistresses Stephen dealt with were okay, and he was particularly fond of Mistress Tina, a lovely, forty-something Asian lady whom he had occasional encounters with. Still, Mistress Tina traveled a lot and Stephen only saw her every few months or so, and the brother was left frustrated.
Stephen tried hollering at the pretty ladies he saw on his campus, but most of them were NOT into what he liked. These young women were vanilla for the most part. Stephen saw absolutely no future there. They were too normal for him. Too conventional. Stephen was a most unconventional man, thatâs for damn sure. Stephen had to navigate these uncertain waters carefully because the Carleton community was small, and he didnât want people talking about him. In fact, it wasnât long before Stephen gave up on finding romance on campus altogether.
For a time, Stephen Valentin dated a young Black woman named Annie Andrade, and their relationship was fulfilling at first because Annie seemed to understand his needs. They were both from Afro-Caribbean culture, and seemed to relate to each other. Stephen was a church-going, hard-working young man with a serious interest in all things related to Kink and BDSM. Annie Andrade was a sex freak hiding behind the façade of a prim and proper, hard-working college student. They were made for each other.
When Stephen Valentin wrote the kind of kinky, salacious erotica that few could stomach for their wickedness and wanton lust, Annie Andrade was the first person to read them. Much to Stephenâs delight, Annie was turned on by his erotic fiction and seemed to embrace most of his kinks. His lust for White women was temporarily abated due to the fact that he had a wonderful, kinky young Black woman in his life. Stephen Valentin was one happy camper, and he thanked his lucky stars that he had Annie Andrade in his life.
