They talked long over coffee. She was a different kind of chick. She knew a lot about the New York Music scene. She knew her way around the hip hop, r&b, and jazz clubs, but she was not obtuse to the indie rock scene. She knew several bands that he had as mutual acquaintances.
But, what had him most smitten with her was her irreverent, goofy sense of humor. She didn't think anything of bursting into fits of giggles, she had a ready smile, and a cute, smart mouthed, quick tongue. Her face was very expressive when she was being silly, and he found her sense of humor contagious. She didn't display it to him right away, but two cups of coffee into their nightcap, she had him chuckling too.
"Can I touch it?" she asked softly.
"Why Lynne, I thought you were a lady," said Leif.
"Not that stupid, your hair," she quipped, punching him square on the shoulder.
"Oh, my hair. Well sure, you can touch it...only if you let me touch yours," he added with a grin.
She leaned close and touched his hair.
"I've never touched a dreadlock before....it's neat," said Lynne with a chuckle.
She blushed hard now, and her chin dimple revealed itself, and he was smitten with her even more.
"Ugh, I'm going to be sick, how much longer," sighed her friend Janelle playfully looking at her watch.
"I'm surprised that you've never touched a dreadlock before," he added smiling.
"Why? Because I'm black? I might be black but none of my friends have any dreadlocks that I know of. Braids, yeah. Dreads no...you're my first time," she added, taking more of his locks between her hands.
"Do you like how they feel," he asked softly, with a hint of seduction in his voice.
"Ummm.....they feel okay," stammered Lynne.
Her face flushed, the way that his would flush, and clearly, his overture made her shy. He found it so endearing and sweet.
"Now it's my turn to touch your hair," added Leif softly. He leaned towards her and gently took a handful of her hair into his own hand. He leaned forward, caressing it softly, then murmured,
"I've never touched a black girl's hair before. And I always wondered what it would feel like. Your hair is soft and silky and it smells good too," he leaned forward and took a sniff. Then he was amazed at how goofy he sounded.
"Well why wouldn't my hair be soft and silky. Ugh, I hate when white guys make comments like that Leif...I don't want to be your tour guide to black women," said Lynne crossing her arms.
Everything seemed to be going so smooth until he commented on her hair, and she seemed defensive about this, but he didn't want to strike out with her. She was cute, and funny, and so he felt like he should speak from his heart.
"I.....I never had the opportunity to date black girls when I lived in California. There weren't any around in my neighborhood. But if I'd seen any who looked like you, damn it...I would have been real interested in dating her. Look, I don't want you to feel like you have to be my tour guide to black women. I....I don't know why I said that. I mean to me, a pretty woman is a pretty woman. Color doesn't matter. Just never knew any black women is all...honestly. You're real pretty. And talking to you, because you're funny and shit, makes you even prettier. I'm going to give you my number," he added.