So, you can see from my profile that me and my ex girlfriend (Katya) were an interracial couple. I'm Polynesian and she is Russian. She loves our skin contrast and I'm easily the most athletic of all her exes.
What happened threw me for a mile and although it was hard to understand at first, everything is better for everyone now, and life moved on. I'm sharing this here because I'm hoping somebody can explain or give me some insight into what may have gone through her mind. Why did she do that? I think the part that upsets anybody is 'not knowing'. You torment yourself thinking maybe you're being insecure, or imagining stuff that isn't real - enough to drive anybody crazy.
So I'm going to give the short version of events. If there's enough interest and response to this post I'd be willing to tell you her version, which she was good enough to confess to.
I'm an exec and have a good career. She is super arty - hippy girl. She was modelling when we met and i thought it was super cool that she'd be in all these cool music videos and fashion shoots but she loved being with me. There are richer, cooler, younger, more athletic guys - but she just wanted to be with me. How great was that?
This happened in 2019, she was 27 then. You can see what she looks like from my photos so I don't need to describe either of us. She wanted to transition from model to being a producer. From in front of the camera to being behind the camera. I was supportive. We both are hip/hop, rap music people. I grew up listening to it, and it's a way of life. She loved that we both enjoyed hip/hop, rap and the culture.
She got an offer to produce a video of a famous rap star. I'm not out to embarrass anybody so no names here. he was 21 in 2019. I met the guy. And his crew. The first video shoot was fine. We all went out and celebrated and had a great night when it was done. He was very polite to me - I suppose because I'm older, and we got along great - he insisted on putting his cell number in my phone as "little Bro". Nothing to dislike about him. Music was also pretty good. Couldn't go anywhere without listening to at least one of his songs on the dancefloor - any club.
She got another offer to shoot his next video. This would be on location. I couldn't be there but I supported that she go.
Just before she left she started a huge fight over nothing. I didn't even understand what we were fighting about. Then she blocked me on Whatsapp and Instagram etc. Seemed a little extreme but I figured it's stress.