FemDom FLR couple introduce cuckolding
Chapter 1
My future wife and I met in 2004 when I recently got the internet installed at home for the first time. It did not take me long to go from looking at Femdom related porn in magazines and the femdom books I used to buy from Olympia press every few months to then discovering the world of the internet and all it had to offer.
After years of being submissive to females since my teenage years when I used to look in magazines and get turned on by dominant looking women, to then getting the internet and learning there is a much larger kink world out there. I eventually met the like-minded dominant woman who would become my wife.
We have spent our whole relationship living the Female lead relationship lifestyle; even when we had our daughter, we still were active in the scene, all be it a lot more toned down whilst at home with her. Our daughter has been brought knowing that her Mum is the one in charge, and how she often tells dad to do this and that, and he always obeys his wife.
Before anyone screams me down and calls us freaks and perverts for this confession, NO! we did not expose her to the kink and sexual side of a Female lead relationship. As I say, at home, when our daughter was around, it was simply a case of her knowing her Mum was the main boss and dad obeyed her Mum just like she did herself growing up.
In later years with our daughter getting older and her being taught sex education at school, we did start to talk to her about different relationships people have, gay, trans, Bi relationships, non-sexual relationships that were more companion based with mutual benefits without the physical need for sex/ We also brought up how some couples are submissive and dominant and explained how Mum was the dominant in our relationship because dad is more comfortable letting her take the lead role in our family, just like she is more comfortable taking the lead role making the decisions.
"I reiterate, we never mentioned the kink/Femdom BDSM side of our relationship".
All through our relationship, and before it, I have been a crossdresser, something my wife liked a lot and pushed me to be the best I could be without actually living as a CD 24/7. I never had the desire to be a woman or to dress 24/7, well apart from in my fantasies, that is, I confess I have loved the idea of being able to be a sissy 24/7 365 and serving full-time as a sissy maid for Mistress, but obviously, real-life commitments make that impossible.
There was a big change in our relationship when I started to lose my libido and the ability to maintain an erection during sex. Do not get me wrong, I admit I was never the worlds greatest lover for my wife, but at least I could perform enough to bring pleasure to both. Even when turned on, I found I could not perform in the traditional sense. We tried Viagra, but that did not work at all; all the pills did was give me a headache the day after.
We did consider the doctors, but we put it down to me turning 40 and because I had been wearing a chastity device for more extended periods. My wife insisted on no time in chastity for a few months to see if somehow things fixed themselves, but they never did. Even though I hated to let down my loving wife and to know she was disappointed, I also felt no real need or strong desire for sex anymore, "with anyone". I was, and still are content, not having the pressure of sexual performance anxiety on me. I asked if I could go back into chastity, she agreed.
Being active in the kink community online and nights out at club events, we posted about this issue in forums and even spoke to some kink friends in person. Even though the idea never entered our minds beforehand, many people mentioned cuckolding as a possible solution? Even though we are both very open-minded, neither considered it or took the idea seriously early on. I was reluctant because even as a sub and sissy, I did not know if I could deal with being submissive around any man, let alone him being with my wife too.