My friends know me as the sweet, innocent girl who's a little uptight and high maintenance, though. I'm family-oriented. I'm about 5'3 in height. I've had some work on my body. I wasn't fat before, but I didn't like my body shape. I didn't put implants on me; instead, I got a fat transfer to my butt and thighs and worked on my boobs a little, which were already big in the first place.
Basically, a small waist, a big butt, and big boobs. I was insecure when I was younger; now that might not be a problem for some people. But imagine being that pasty pale white girl when you are Colombian and most of your friends have olive skin tones. I have light brown eyes but with short eyelashes, which is why I put on extension lashes. This is the reason I got into makeup, and although I may not tan and turn red instead in the sun, I will brag about the fact that I have clear, smooth skin and nice, virgin, long, chestnut, soft, brown hair.
So I am picky when it comes to dating. I prefer Mexican boys or Latinos that aren't too dark. I have seen some dark-skinned Mexicans that are cute. I was willing to give one guy a chance, but he was too shy and also couldn't make up his mind about what kind of girl he was after. That's another thing about me: I can't go for guys that are thirsty who are always chasing girls. This is the reason why I'm always single. It is not easy getting the type of guy I'm after. He needs to be a handsome, hard worker, a gentleman who has the same background as I have.
I am busy with work, and it has been pretty hard to go out. Most of my friends have gotten into or are in relationships and have been busy with their stuff. It never gets old with random strangers hitting me up on IG, of course, but I have not found anyone I'm interested in. One day my gay friend made a dating profile for me, and he began to swipe on the guys he thought I would be into. There were quite a few, but many didn't reply back, and some of them didn't keep an interesting conversation. So I told him to do the talking for me.
I was talking to 4 guys: one Mexican guy, two who were white, which I usually don't go for, but I have dated some in the past, and another who was a Black guy with a caramel complexion. I'm not into Black guys, but this one was nice to talk to. All of these guys were nice, but I was bored. My Tinder profile was hidden, so I wasn't getting any new matches. So one night I was deciding to erase or make my profile public again when I got a message at 2 am. It was a Black guy, but it was the type of guy that I wouldn't go for.
He had short dreads, was throwing up gang signs in his photos, and was sagging his pants, and he was extremely too dark for my taste. In many of his pictures he had his shirt off, was smoking weed, or had a bottle of liquor in his hand. He had toned abs and muscles but was not my taste. He gave me a compliment with some emojis; I wasn't interested, but I did say thank you out of courtesy. He didn't ask questions; he went straight to the point. Said he wanted to link up, so I told him I wasn't interested respectfully.
I told him I was not interested, so he came up with the race card insinuating that I was a racist white girl. I didn't like the fact that he assumed I was your basic white girl, so I told him that I'm Colombian and asserted to him that the majority of my family has light brown skin. His mood changed quickly, and then he told me that he loves Latinas. I wasn't interested, but I was bored, so I tried to harm his ego when he asked me if I liked Black guys and said no, but he said I was missing out.
Since he practically insulted me, I tried to break his little fantasy that Latinas like Black guys, so I told him straight out that I prefer Mexican men. He then said why I matched with him, but it wasn't me that matched with him. My friend must have either accidentally done it or been trolling me for swiping a guy knowing I wouldn't be into.
He then told me that he didn't think I was real, so he wanted to talk not on Tinder but on the phone. I wasn't interested, and frankly I didn't care to prove him right, so I told him I'd rather not. He gave me his phone number and stopped replying but not before throwing shade at White and Mexican men. I'm not going to lie; I did take it personally since my brother and father, who I truly appreciate, are Mexican. However, I left it like that and didn't bother to reply.
He stopped replying, so eventually I began to talk to other guys on Tinder, but all of their conversations seemed to drag. 6 days had passed since the Black guy gave me his phone number when one night I was alone and bored. I was watching some YouTube videos, and before you knew it, I was on the weird side of YouTube. There was a Black girl lecturing White, Latina, and Asian girls on why we don't do anything for Black men but desire them.
I felt annoyed that Black people actually think we are at their disposal or something like that. Suddenly I remembered that Black guy from Tinder and got irritated at the thought of his arrogance, so I felt like I needed to break his ego. I don't know why I did it, but I texted him from my phone. "Hey, this is Blanca, I said. He replied 20 minutes later and asked for a selfie, so I took one real quick. He was cocky and said to me that he was sure that I wanted some Black dick.
I laughed and said I was bored and wanted an apology from him and to prove to him that I was no catfish. He said that he didn't believe me that either I wanted black dick or that I was a catfish. He tried to gaslight me into admitting to it. I honestly didn't know why I replied. But I was bored, and I did find it thrilling to talk to a type of guy whom I would probably run away from had I actually bumped into him in the streets.
The fact that I knew I was safe from danger by being on the other line gave me such a weird feeling. We were going back and forth arguing on why I prefer Mexican guys. After 25 minutes he wanted to prove if I was real, so he asked for FaceTime. I still wanted to troll him, but I was feeling a little bit bored of him by now. But he did say that he will wire me $50 if I FaceTime. So I did; he was lying down shirtless on his bed. He talked to ghetto for me. But I wanted to break his little ego. He then said something nasty.