It is a historic fact that Hindus and Muslims have never gotten along. While in countries like India, both religions live amongst each other in relative harmony, there is always a separation of the beliefs that has hindered intermingling. Religious riots have occurred numerous times, with the most devastating one taking place in 1947 after the separation of India and Pakistan. Without going into specifics, in almost sixty years, the spawning of new generations has not done much to bridge the gap between the two religions.
However, in the 21st century, the latest generations especially in the west are starting to let go of the anger and hate passed down from generation to generation. They are learning to look past the Bindis and the Beards and learn to judge the soul of the person instead of their place of worship. This story is of one such couple, who looked beyond cultural and religious boundaries and allowed their hearts to lead the way. This is the story of Deepak and Alesha.
Deepak and Alesha had known each other since high school. While the pair weren't really friends then, they both had a mutual liking and respect for each other. Both were straight A students, both were of Indian origins, and both were well liked and admired by their peers. However, both their personalities were quiet different. Deepak was the outgoing good natured playboy who had his share of dates. He was raised in a rather liberal atmosphere where his parents had not restricted him from dating girls, and also had no rules against dating non-Hindu girls.
Alesha, while was also raised by moderately religious Muslim parents, didn't date at all in high School, and even in college went out with boys in only when there were other girls in the group. Her parents had not denied her the right of dating, but had not encouraged her either. However, it was always emphasized that her "dating" had to be limited to Muslim boys at all times.
Deepak had always been attracted to Alesha. Muslim women have always been predisposed to being beautiful and Alesha was no different. At 5'3 she was fair and petite. She always dressed modestly even though she dressed in the western attire. For Deepak, her modesty was an even more of an appealing factor as he was getting bored of girls who exposed too much thus leaving nothing to the imagination. He knew that Alesha was a Muslim and that factor always prevented him from asking her out.
Alesha had known of Deepak for years, and especially after coming to college she had often seem him around campus. While they didn't move in the same circles, she always kept relatively loose tabs on him. She had always admired him from afar, especially his intelligence. She considered him out quiet good looking, but also knew he was completely out of bounds. So it actually was quiet a shock to her when one day out of the blue, Deepak asked she would like to join him for a cup of coffee at the campus Star Bucks.
Deepak had been very nervous when he finally decided to ask Alesha out. He kept saying to himself over and over again "the worst she can do is say no, the worst she can do is say no". He had seen Alesha study in the student Union in the afternoons, so decide to take a leap of faith.
"Hi Alesha," Deepak said a bit nervously.
"Hey Deepak, How are you?" Alesha smiled warmly at him.
"I'm good," he replied. "I see you're rather busy, so I don't want to disturb you, but I was wondering if you'd like to have coffee with me sometimes. We can catch up and swap high school stories."
Alesha just looked at him in a mixture of surprise and humor. She wasn't sure what was going on but her curiosity and inherent interest in Deepak got the best of her.
"I'm almost done here, so if you want to wait while I pack up, we can have that coffee now." She smiled in response.
"Great" Smiled Deepak, part of his nervousness fading.
The pair went up to the coffee shop and ordered their respected cappuccino and latte, and chatted away the afternoon and the evening. Before they knew it, they had finished two cappuccinos, 2 lattes, a large salad, two croissants, a cheese take, and two bottled waters. When she finally realized it was time to go, the pair had been chatting for over 7 hours, and neither of them felt the time slip past them.
As Deepak walked Alesha to her car in the now dark parking lot, he took a deep breath and asked.
"Would you like to have dinner with me this Friday night?"
"Yes" Alesha said without thinking, and her quick response surprised both of them. Both laughed at that and Deepak watched Alesha pull away with a sort of giddiness he hadn't felt in a long while. Alesha smiled all the way home and this was the moment where the seeds of romance had been planted.
On Friday, Alesha lied to her parents saying that she was going out with the girls to the movies. She had already taken her date clothes to class in the morning and passed them to her best friend. A quick change at her friend's place and Alesha was ready for her first real date. As agreed, she met Deepak at the restaurant looking positively radiant.
Deepak had always considered Alesha beautiful, but tonight she looked breath taking. She was wearing a red silk blouse over a very elegant black ankle-length skirt topped with a thin scarf tied loosely around her neck. The patterns on the scarf were definitely Asian in origins which were hiding her gold chain. She had tied her hair up which accentuated her slender neck and also allowed her to show off her earrings.
Deepak got off his chair, and helped Alesha sit down, before calling over the waiter to place their drinks order. Out of respect for Alesha (who didn't drink) he ordered an Iced Tea for both of them, an act that Alesha greatly appreciated. The couple again spent the hours talking, connecting, and getting to know each other even more.
After dinner, Deepak walked Alesha back to her car, and even though neither of them wanted to night to end, a movie only runs for so long. He held Alesha's hand as they walked together, and after she opened her car door, he leaned over and gave her a gently kiss on her cheek. Alesha simply beamed as she drove away.
The couple kept their romance a secret expect for a confidant on either side. They would meet on campus and have lunch together. Their dates always followed the same plan where Alesha would tell her parents she was spending the night with the girls, and meet Deepak for their date. This went of for months and until finally, on Valentines Day, after their dinner, Deepak took Alesha on the outskirts of town, to the University Observatory. The lab was supposed to be closed after hours with access only to students of the Astronomy department. Fortunately, Deepak's best friend and confidant was a PhD candidate in the Astronomy Department and let them in.
"Wow, nice place you got here." Alesha said in wonder.
"This is my second home these days or should I say nights. But tonight I get to take a break." Smiling at Deepak he added, "Everything is in order, just don't break anything" and left the couple alone.
"What was that all about?" Alesha asked curiously
"You'll see in a minute," Deepak replied as he took her hand and led her to the observation tower.
"Now take a look through the telescope and tell me what you see." Deepak instructed her.
Alesha looked through the eye piece and saw a beautiful bright star, though it wasn't really twinkling and told Deepak that.
"That, my dear is the planet Venus." He said. "It is the third brightest object in the sky after the sun and the moon and in almost every mythology is has always been a symbol of beauty and perfection. Ancient civilizations based their cultures around it and it has always been thought to be the equal counterpart to earth."
"Okay." Alesha said looking at Deepak with a somewhat confused look and wondering if there were here for a science lesson.
"The point I'm trying to make here," continued Deepak, "Is that that to me, you are the definition of beauty and perfection. After my dad and my mom, you are my guiding light, and I consider you my equal counterpart in every way."
"So what I'm really trying to say is," Deepak paused and took a deep breath, got down on one knee and held Alesha's hand, "will you marry me?"
Alesha was in shock for a second, before kneeling down herself with tears in her eyes and whispering "Yes".
Deepak leaned over, gently caressed her face with his hand and placed a tender kiss on her lips. Alesha felt her mind and body explode with the emotional roller coaster ride she was on. This was the happiest moment of her life, she was in love with this man, and he just proved how much he loved her by asked to marry her. Yet in the back of her mind, she knew this was an impossibility.
Not wanted to let go of this moment or him, Alesha wrapped her arms around Deepak and pulled him in closer as their kiss grew more passionate. While normally poised and controlled, Alesha's mind was swirling with emotions. Slipping her fingers through his hair, Alesha pulled him in and she slipped her tongue into his mouth. Letting her tongue explore, she made slow sucking motions with her lips as Deepak took her head in his arms and let his finger run through her hair.