I'm happy dating over-, under-, and interracially ;)
I'm a man in my 40s. Born and raised in Europe. Good looking. Have lived on 4 continents to date. Currently based in LA. I'm finding that I love LA. In some ways there is more freedom here than anywhere else I know.
To my surprise, though, mainstream society here is pretty conservative when it comes to interracial love. Many seem to view it as something wrong or even taboo. A few seem to be fetishising interracial love. And only very few seem able to see it as perfectly normal.
Recently I was flying from Europe back to California. Boarding the flight, I noticed a particularly beautiful flight attendant greeting me. As luck or destiny would have, she turned out to be attending to the area where I was seated.
She was spirited and gorgeous. We clicked. And later during the quiet night part of the flight, I chatted with her for a long time. She seemed so relaxed and open that it felt like we were both traveling as passengers.
There was nothing explicitly sexual about our interaction at that point. Yet there was sexual energy. We don't yet have models or instruments to measure this, but it felt palpable and real. When the time came for her to resume her work, she touched my hand and gave me her number.
I called her the next day and asked her out for that evening. I mentioned this to a friend, saying that I was catching up with a sexy flight attendant whom I had met on my flight. It honestly didn't even occur to me to say that she was black - just like it also didn't occur to me mention, say, the color of her airline uniform, or her physical height.
She was pretty tall btw, 5.11. Her figure as I remembered it from the flight was that of a model. Beautiful long legs. A deliciously narrow waistline. And her ass stood projected to the back. In my mind I had undressed her on the plane. And she probably knew it.
It was a balmy LA evening when we met. It was for a drink. But again we clicked. The drink date turned into a dinner date. I don't know if the meal was not nourishing enough, but by the time we finished eating, we were both hungry for each other. Again nothing too explicit yet, but her eyes and her expression seemed to be saying "take me".