My name is Annabelle Peggy Simpson, but you may call me Sister Peg. Everybody still does. Even though I'm not a Nun anymore. I was born and raised in the City of Trenton, State of New Jersey. With my Teutonic good looks ( I stand six feet two inches tall, with blonde hair and pale blue eyes ) I could have been a model or an actress but I went in another direction altogether. Early in life, I felt a powerful calling to serve God. That's why I became a Catholic Nun. I went to seminary, and gained entry into the prestigious Sisters of Mercy order of Catholic Nuns. I traveled the world, bringing the message of God to men and women in different countries. My faith in the Lord never wavered. Until I met a tall, brawny young man named Karim Abdullah, formerly of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. A devout Muslim who enrolled in the Criminal Justice program at Saint Anne College in the town of Trenton, New Jersey. Little did I know he would end up changing my world.
Karim Abdullah came to Saint Anne College because he was curious about Catholicism and also because he wanted to assimilate into American culture. Initially, I didn't quite know what to make of him. Saint Anne College is a small, deeply conservative school that was all-female from its creation in 1890 till September 2009. Two years later, there are six hundred and seventy five male students among the two-thousand-person student body. The female students at Saint Anne College were initially peeved that the school board voted to include male students but they're adjusting nicely. I've seen lots of young women walking around holding hands with the very young men they were so opposed to having on campus. I also noticed that the female students don't show up in class without their makeup on, or while wearing their pajamas anymore. I guess they're trying to impress the guys. My, how times change. There are quite a few nice young men among our new male students, but Karim Abdullah stood out. Most of the male students were Caucasian, for one thing. I thought Karim Abdullah was Hispanic, until he told me that he was biracial, born to an Arab father and African mother.
This tall young man was born and raised in the City of Mecca, deep within the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. It's their most sacred town, I think. His mother Khadija Ibrahim is of Somali descent and his father Mohammed Abdullah is of course of Saudi Arabian descent. Being a biracial young man of African and Persian descent wasn't easy for him in Saudi Arabia. Even in the Muslim world where there are people of all hues praying together inside the Mosques, there is a lot of racism. I guess racism will never completely go away. Karim told me that part of the reason why he wanted to live in the United States of America was that America represented progress in his eyes. His strict Saudi father raised him to believe all westerners were infidels and that their belief in feminism and euro-centric imperialism made them abominations in the eyes of Allah. Yet Karim, a biracial man, was elated when Barack Hussein Obama, a fellow biracial man, was elected President of the United States of America in 2008.
That's what began changing Karim Abdullah's views on America. In Saudi Arabia, he was often called racial slurs by wealthy Saudi noblemen. Behind his father's back of course. Karim's father was a wealthy and powerful man who cared for his son in his own way but he couldn't be everywhere at once. Especially since he was a General in the Armed Forces of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. The man answered to the Great King of Saudi Arabia himself. Karim began to fascinate me with tales of his homeland. He told me about the King Abdullah University of Science and Technology, a secular school built by the King of Saudi Arabia himself. The only school where men and women could learn together in the entire Kingdom. Also, the King went out of his way to attract professors from Europe and North America to teach to his students.
Inside the prestigious King Abdullah University of Science and Technology, female students enjoyed full equality with men. Women could walk around in western clothing inside the campus. The hijab and the burka were NOT mandatory inside the King Abdullah University of Science and Technology. The King made it clear that women's rights were to be respected inside the campus. They could also drive cars, and consume alcohol. The King wanted the school to be a secular institution focusing on science and technology in order to thrust the youth of Saudi Arabia into the twenty-first century. I was amazed to hear that. Whenever I thought of Saudi Arabia, I thought of a place where women were oppressed as a matter of law. I had no idea the King of a conservative Muslim country like the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia had such progressive views. Wow.
Karim Abdullah was schooling me about the Muslim world while I was supposed to be teaching him about western culture. He told me that he wished the Muslim world would embrace a more pro-democratic and secular mindset, but progress was slow. A lot of Muslim men from countries like Egypt, Tunisia and Libya favored the deeply sexist rules of Sharia Law over anything resembling modern feminism because they heard horror stories of what Muslim female immigrants living in America and Canada did to their husbands and fathers using the pro-female and downright anti-male code of justice found there. A lot of Arab women adopted a vengeful mindset against Arab men when they arrived in Western countries. And they weren't above using the police and the court system against their men whenever they felt like it. Karim told me that Arab men were well-aware that domestic violence laws and the court systems of Europe, America, Australia, Canada and New Zealand definitely favored women over men. Sharia Law was a reassurance for Muslim men living in North Africa and the Middle East because they wouldn't be at the mercy of women's whims in these deeply sexist and downright patriarchal courts.
This fascinating young man taught me a lot. I hardly ever questioned the laws of America and Europe. A lot of our laws definitely favor women over men. Go anywhere in America, Australia, New Zealand, Canada or Europe and you will realize that women can get a man jailed with a quick phone call and a phony accusation. Men accused of mistreating women were presumed guilty by cops and judges throughout the Western world. That was the main reason why Muslim men didn't like democracy or feminism. To them, democracy and feminism meant handing over all power to women. And they knew women's vengeful nature and feared it so much that they codified Sharia Laws to keep them at bay. That was the true reason why Arab men and Muslim men in general didn't embrace Western thinking and Western values. It was a matter of basic male self-preservation, nothing more. The Western world did to men what it often accused the Muslim world of doing to women. In the Western world, women were favored and men were second class citizens. In the Muslim world, men were favored and women were second class citizens. That was the real reason behind the Clash of Civilizations between Western powers and the leaders of the Muslim world.