I knew my girlfriend dated other men. I allowed it to keep her happy, but was not exactly thrilled by the situation. We seemed very happy when we were together, so if she had some fun on the side, big deal!
She is a beautiful Vietnamese girl who just turned 26 in October. I am almost 11 years older than her, a fact of which she always reminds me, referring to me as an "old man".
On her last birthday, I took her out to eat and she got a little tipsy. She explained to me that she had been dating someone for the last month. I have to say, I was a little in shock. Even though I work third shift, I was amazed that she had a guy on the side.
She told me that they had met at school (she goes to college 3 days a week). She had noticed him always staring at her, and even following her around: a STALKER!
After about a week and a half of school, he asked her out. She turned him down, not liking his looks or the way he looked at her. The following week he asked her out again, and she turned him down a second time, for the same reasons. But I'll give him credit for persistence: he asked her out a third time. She gave in!
She explained that she already had a boyfriend, but he told her that was fine. She never explained to me why she changed her mind and consented to go out with him. She just told me they had gone out four or five times. WTF! She wasn't even sure how many times they dated?
She told me his name was Michael and that he was 43. Wow! She explained to me that she didn't think he liked her too much. But she obviously liked him! I could tell by the way she talked about him. She was in major lust mode.