After more than one year of living in Syria, my love life had turned out to be much more varied than I ever could have expected. Hidden behind a curtain of social norms and religious habits, deep lust and longing had unveiled itself to me and more than once I had deeply gotten entangled in a night of passionate sex with an Arab woman. However, my latest adventure proved to be even more daring and surprising than the previous ones.
May was just the perfect month to be in Damascus: hot like a European summer, trees and flowers in full blossom and the entire city was waking up from its self-imposed winter sleep by strolling around until late at night. It was also the time when the old town houses converted into restaurants started opening up the roof of their court yards to reveal the night skies to the diners below.
I had the chance to spend one of these wonderful evenings with some friends and colleagues, enjoying the various delicacies of Syrian cuisine at its best. While lazily puffing away on a hubble bubble (or narghile in Arabic), I noticed the big party that had taken the table next to us. While most of them were couples in their 50ies and 60ies, the sight of two women in their midst struck me as quite unusual.
First the fact that they did not really fit into the group; and second that although they seemed to be close friends, they could not have been more different in their appearance: one was clearly influenced by Western society and dressed that way with tight jeans, a stretched top showing her curvy figure and long, curly hair to perfectly frame her oriental features; the other one was covered in the black Arabic dress, the abbaya, including the matching head scarf so that only her dark, black eyes showed.
While I was watching them, I realised that they must have been observing me before, since they started discussing some topic while looking into my direction. Their giggling seemed to confirm my suspicions, and suddenly I was met with two brightly lit pairs of eyes looking into mine and starting to smile. Somehow uncertain about this unexpected show of attention, I returned to my hubble bubble and kept puffing away.
However, every time my look wandered into their direction, I caught a smile or a glimpse of something undefined by both of them, as if they were sizing me up for something – not quite the usual way of consideration that I had gotten used to in Syria. Playing along with them, I gave them some of my most beautiful smiles and simply enjoyed the moments of the wonderful spring night.
When I excused myself to go to the bathroom, I did not immediately notice that both women also started in the same direction. When we almost bumped into each other in the anteroom, we seemed all equally surprised. After a moment of an insecure exchange of smiles, the Western-style woman was the first one to speak: "Btehki arabi (Do you speak Arabic)?" she asked me.
"Bass shway (Just a little)," I replied, "my English is a lot better. Do you speak English?"
"I do," she gave back, "but my friend only speaks a little bit. But she can understand quite well!"
"Then maybe English is the better option," I suggested with a smile. "What are your names?"
"I am Samira and my friend's name is Zahra."
I brought my hand to my heart, observing the Arabian rule not to shake hands with women, and introduced myself.
Into the little pause that followed, Samira spoke again: "Can we have your phone number?"
"Oh yes, of course," I replied quite surprised; this was really an unusual move. But I was not willing to spoil the moment, although I did not really make much of all that.
Samira took down my number into her cell phone. Then she motioned towards the toilets: "I guess we better continue, otherwise everybody will be wondering where we are!" And with a final look to me she said: "We will call you; we want to meet you again!"
Zahra had been following our conversation with a certain reserve, although she gave the impression of having understood the topic. As if to make up for her silence, she gave me one deep and long final look from her dark eyes before disappearing behind her friend into the bathroom.
Still wondering, I emerged shortly after to rejoin my friends at the table, where we got ready to pay the bill and leave. A final look to the neighbouring table was met by two pairs for eyes smiling happily – and both Samira and Zahra gave me a hidden bye-bye wave.
By the next day, I had almost forgotten about the incident at the restaurant, when in the afternoon, my cell phone announced an incoming call. Not recognizing the number, I answered and was met by a familiar voice: "Hi, this is Samira, you remember me from yesterday?"
Well, that was a real surprise! "Hi Samira, of course I remember you, but I never thought you would really call! How was your evening yesterday, did you stay for long at the restaurant?"
"Oh yes," she replied, "we stayed for quite long, it was just a shame that you had left so early! We had much more fun when you were still there."
"Well, I could see that, you two were constantly gossiping secretly in my direction. What did you talk about?"
"Women's stuff," she answered teasingly, leaving a small pause after her remark. "What are you doing now; do you maybe have time for a coffee?"
That was an even more unusual move, but I had learned not to be surprised too much in this society. "I am actually just strolling around in the park in Shala'an and I would not mind a coffee. What do you have in mind?"
"Do you know the 'La Trattoria', that's not far from you? I am sure you have been there. What about meeting there in half an hour?"
I agreed, then starting to become a little nervous. What did that woman actually want from me? She had been asking me straightforward for my phone number, and now she was inviting me for a coffee? Deeply immerged in my thoughts, I strolled towards the cafeteria and sat down, reserving the opposite seat for her.
Samira showed up right on time and sat down opposite me, giving a fully content smile at her successful initiative. I did not show my slight disappointment that Zahra was not in her company, remembering her last look in that restaurant one day before. However, that did not stop me from watching Samira more intensely in daylight: she was a true woman in her mid-30ies, with full hair highlighted by dyed streaks. That day, she wore black trousers that showed her female curves and a purple blouse, whose reflection gave her smile an extra touch of spring. Her well-groomed appearance matched her flashy make-up.
Positively enough, we got along instantly and our meeting was like that of old friends: we chatted about ourselves, our current jobs and leisure activities in and around Damascus. Samira had lived for some years in Beirut, giving her the aura of a cosmopolitan woman who spoke outstanding English; this was clearly something not to be found in Syria. But despite our loose conversation, I kept having the feeling that she was having something in mind, some intentions that were at that point not quite clear to me.
Things only started to lighten up when I asked about her friend: "So, how is Zahra doing? Why did she not join us?"
Her face took on a more conspiratorial expression: "Well, Zahra would have loved to be here with you and me, but that is a somehow complicated story..." She waited for my consent to continue. "She told me that she really found you very attractive and appealing as a man. That is not something easily said for a Syrian woman, but somehow she has taken on an interest in you. I know I am being very open right now, is that ok for you?"
I stirred a little in my seat, not exactly knowing where this was going to lead. But I was bound to find out: "Sure, go ahead."
"Ok, so I will be frank with you. If you think what I say is crazy, please feel free to get up and leave; the coffee is on my anyway." She paused for a moment, and then continued. "You see, I and Zahra have been friends for a very long time and we share each others joys and problems. Zahra is a married woman, as you can probably imagine. Although her marriage is quite good, there is one area where she and her husband don't seem to find a right connection: they are not having good sex." When saying these words, she had lowered her voice a little and had looked around. After all, we were still in a public place, where conversations like this were not really appropriated.
She looked back at me and cleared her throat. Despite her self-confident aura, this was even for her a quite sensitive topic. "The point is: Zahra is really longing to have a fulfilling, intense sexual experience. And when she saw you, she thought maybe she could make this experience with you."
I was totally stunned at her words. Here was an Arabian woman, telling me that her friend wanted to have sex with me? I had to swallow once, twice, and then tried to speak; but nothing came out.
Samira saw my surprise and put her hand on mine: "I am sorry if I have been too straightforward. I did not mean to overrun you with this."