Patiently Imam Ahmed Al-Sharif did his evening prayers inside the Mosque in southern Ottawa, Ontario. The older Black man knelt on the carpet and said a prayer to Allah. Beside him, several men and a couple of women prayed. This was a sight which would have shocked many in the Muslim world because men and women weren't supposed to pray in the same area according to conservative Hadiths. Well, Imam Ahmed Al-Sharif had always been somewhat of a maverick. Born in the town of Baalbek, Republic of Lebanon, to a Lebanese father and Somali mother, he grew up as the son of two worlds. In his youth he moved to Ontario, Canada, to study business administration at Carleton University. These days he was an account manager with the Royal Bank of Canada.
At forty six, he liked what he had done with his life. He was a businessman, a community leader, a husband and a father. And he was also the Imam of the only Mosque in North America where women and men could pray side by side. Ahmed Al-Sharif defied conservative voices in the Muslim world by advocating gender equality in his Mosque. For this, he got many death threats from Arabs and Somalis alike. He didn't care. The way he saw it, he was doing the Work of God. Throughout the world, there were two schools of thought. Progressive and regressive. Ahmed Al-Sharif considered himself a progressive first and foremost. Growing up biracial in the blatantly racist society of South Lebanon prepared him for a lifetime of standing up for what he believed in. When his family moved to Canada, he embraced Canadian life and values wholeheartedly.
Many Muslims who came to the Confederation of Canada from places like Africa, Indonesia and the Arab world secretly despised Canada's ideals of gender equality, racial harmony and religious freedom. Everywhere Muslims went, other religions tended to suffer due to Muslim intolerance towards Christians, Jews, Pagans and others. In Egypt, the Islamists persecuted Coptic Christians daily. In Lebanon, the Christians were starting to get nervous now that they were forty percent of the population and the Muslims were starting to flex their muscles. Everywhere Islam went, conflict followed. That's what it looked like. Imam Ahmed understood this. That's why many people across the western world and beyond were weary of Muslims. Ahmed Al-Sharif understood the fears of these people. He considered himself a progressive Muslim. He firmly opposed domestic violence, honor killings, and female circumcision. Imam Ahmed wanted to modernize his religion and bring it into the twenty-first century.
When Canada held a referendum on same-sex marriage, Imam Ahmed Al-Sharif surprised many Muslims by supporting the right of gays and lesbians to marry. Many in his community called him a madman for supporting such a thing. Muslims were even more staunchly anti-gay than some fundamentalist Christians. Also, Imam Ahmed didn't believe in proselytizing. The way he saw it, God called men and women to Him. None could resist the Call of the Most High. It wasn't up to him to encourage his friends to join his religion. It was up to God to summon them. He was a practical and realistic man. There were many things about his faith he loved but there were also quite a few things he found unsettling. And he aimed to rectify some of these things, God willing. Imam Ahmed didn't want Islam to change Canada. He wanted Canadian values incorporated into the hearts and minds of Muslims living in Canada.
Imam Ahmed's progressive ideas astonished many of his fellow Muslims. When a Baptist church located not far from his own Mosque suffered water damage during one of the worst storms in Ontario history, Imam Ahmed went to James Etienne, the Haitian-born Pastor of the local Baptist church and donated twenty grand of his own money toward reparations. This move earned Imam Ahmed the friendship and admiration of many Christians living in the City of Ottawa, Ontario. It also earned him the enmity of many of his fellow Muslims. For an Imam to use his own money to help a group of infidels seemed to be anathema to a Muslim's identity. Confronting his detractors, Imam Ahmed pointed out to them that a certain Italian church allowed Muslims to use its building on Friday nights while they went looking for a place to build their own mosque. That story made international news in 2007 and surprised both Christians and Muslims.
If Christians could extend the proverbial olive branch to Muslims in their time of need, true Muslims should open their hearts and help their Christian cousins in their time of need as well. Imam Ahmed told as much to the reporters from the Ottawa Sun Newspaper when they interviewed him, and he meant every word. Imam Ahmed Al-Sharif finished his evening prayer, and nodded respectfully to the men and women praying in his Mosque. Men and women praying side by side as equals in the eyes of God. The way it should be. That's what Imam Ahmed Al-Sharif believed and nothing any man or woman could say would detract him from it. The old man walked back to his car in the lot, and nodded respectfully at brother Warsama, a tall Somali guy who was the building superintendent. Warsama would close the mosque for the evening after prayers were done.