Chapter 2: The Party
On the drive home from our first swinging experience, I worried that my wife and I would never be able to have "regular" sex again. Would every experience have to top the one before? That would sure put the pressure on being creative.
I needn't have worried.
Both my wife and I had sex with others before we met each other. That's normal! Why pretend otherwise. So did I worry when we first met that her previous boyfriend was a gorgeous stud who had gotten her jeans down on their first date? No, I wasn't worried.
Well, so maybe I was a little worried at the time. But it turned out that it didn't matter then - so why should it matter now. I could get this woman who barely raised her voice at a football game to have screaming orgasms in bed. I just couldn't get any on our first date. Neither one of us would have been as comfortable with sex after we finally got together if we hadn't been taught a few good moves before we met. The real puzzling question was why we had waited so long to go back for advanced lessons from our more experienced friends.
Nothing may be as exciting as the memory of our first time in bed together, but our first experience with swinging came close. That first week we were so constantly aroused that we dispensed with our usual foreplay almost entirely. We slept in the nude. What was the point of putting anything on if we went to sleep every night spooned together with my limp cock nestled against her sticky pussy? I couldn't crawl out of bed in the morning without sliding between her legs for a few more strokes. If she got home from work first, she would greet me in the entryway with her skirt off and I'd take her bent over the couch in the living room. We couldn't live this way for long – and we didn't.
By the first weekend after the "experience" (as we began to call it), we had settled into a more sustainable lifestyle that allowed us to take time to smell the roses so to speak. Roses, of course, were not what really turned me on. A woman's sexual anatomy from her pubis to her anus is richly endowed with multiple glands that only release their secretions with sexual arousal. The smell and taste of a woman freshly washed and sexually aroused is the ultimate aphrodisiac for me. After the "experience" with Rebecca and Alan, Jocelyn found my attentions erotically stimulating rather than mildly perverted. Instead of squirming uncomfortably, she welcomed my tongue as it left its familiar home in her well licked pussy and explored the nearby territory more thoroughly.
We began to talk more openly about our fantasies for ourselves and for each other. During the month that we were waiting for the party that the Coopers were arranging, we learned all that we could from our first experience with swinging. Our relationship with each other was still secure and loving – maybe more so. We still had a wide range of interests outside of sex that we continued to share with each other. We were no longer preoccupied with sex, but we were ready to share new sexual experiences with each other.
Rebecca described the party as a film festival of very special home movies. The other 2 couples (besides the Coopers and us) had been at the parties before and were comfortable with the setting. We were the newcomers and our arrival was welcomed with much anticipation – especially after the Coopers had shown the film that they had made with us to the other prospective party goers. We, in turn, had gotten a Special Edition DVD of our soon to be intimate friends.
I was told that these arrangements avoided the disappointment of being turned down. It was understood that any couple who was uncomfortable with any other couple should simply not attend. This was just fine with us. Neither my wife nor I were very skilled in the art of seduction. But even I could seduce a willing woman who I had already seen suck off two cocks when I knew that she had watched me pumping my cock into the hostess of the party.
As the date of the party grew closer, I began to have reservations that were as unexpected as they were unwelcome. I had previously been mildly frustrated with my wife's inhibitions when I had wanted to experiment sexually. Now I was unnerved by her newly acquired self-confidence. This woman, who a month ago had been reluctant to let an old friend put his hand on her bare thigh, now told me how excited she was by the prospect of having two men she had just met make love to her at the same time.
I didn't want to spoil a good time so I said nothing. I was saved by the familiarity of a good marriage. A gesture or a slight change in expression can mean more to your spouse after a dozen years of marriage than a night of soul searching dialogue can convey on those first few dates. She could read me and she did.
"I know what you're thinking." She said to me on the drive over to the Cooper's.
"You do, do you?"
"Yes, I do. You're afraid I'll have more fun."
Her tone was not accusing, though she knew I would disagreed with what she said. I could have protested, but I kept my mouth shut. I waited for her to say more.
"When we dine at a fine restaurant, we order different entrees and eat different portions, but we both enjoy ourselves and are equally satisfied."
"So you're saying that with my sexual appetite I should order raw meat for hors d'oeuvres?"
"You're hopeless."
What a women my wife was! Some women build their man's confidence with lies like "No stud's ever fucked me like that." She could both reassure me and put a bulge in my pants with a bad analogy.
And with that, we rolled into the Cooper's driveway behind the unlikely combination of a Honda Civic and a Ford F-150.
The event started off conventionally enough with badminton on the back lawn in the soft light of the early evening. It was not what I expected of swingers, but I had no experience of what to expect. It turned out to be surprisingly good fun. We played with our spouses and then we switched partners as one or more of the players were called to tend to the barbeque or set up the tables. There was no rain this time. By late evening, we were all better acquainted with each other and quite comfortable to be at our first "lifestyle" party.
The tone of the party changed abruptly after the meal was finished and the tables cleared. We all filed through the party room and then the men went to one end of the house while the women went to the other. The two groups would meet later in the room where my wife had first spread her knees apart and opened up our relationship.
The seating in the party room was arranged around a large mattress in the center of the space. The couch where Alan and my wife had sat that night was pushed against one wall. Another couch and some cushions had been brought in to accommodate the group. Seductive music played quietly. Several TV screens had been placed around the room to play clips from the movies that each of the couples had contributed.
The men gathered in the guest room with its tiny shower while the women had the master bedroom with the walk-in shower and Jacuzzi. Each man showered quickly using plenty of soap. All appreciated and expected cleanliness in anticipation of the intimate activities to follow. Choice of clothing for the men was simple. Each man entered the party room naked. Alan reminded me at the last minute that naked included my watch. I would not need it.
Clothing varied for the women. Each woman wore something that she thought accentuated her best features. My wife's green party dress had the most fabric, but was still wildly provocative since it covered neither her nipples nor the full curve of her well rounded ass. Rebecca had worn the least of the four women – only a garter belt to accentuate her long slender legs.
As they entered the room, each woman greeted each man in turn until they had gone around the group getting squeezes and hugs and giving playful tugs and kisses. When my wife reached me, she pressed her lips up to my ear and whispered that she was truly enjoying herself - as if I couldn't tell. I gave her a playful pat on the rear as she moved on to the next man in line. She looked over her shoulder and gave me a glowing smile that evaporated the last of my apprehensions. How could I not enjoy myself with the assurance that this remarkable woman was coming home with me.