Christmastime, and I wasn't doing well.
For starters, my son Isaac was flying out soon. Two weeks without the person I loved most in this world. It would be the longest we'd ever been apart, but he was excited to see his mom in Alaska and I tried to be happy for him. I'll admit, I kinda hoped the weather would take a dump so he was forced to stay home with me, but that would make him and my ex-wife miserable. That, I most definitely did not want. Maybe I didn't see eye-to-eye with Tina about a lot of things, but she was, at heart, a good person, and I wanted her, Isaac, and her boyfriend to have a great time together.
I was scared shitless about Isaac's flight, too. He'd flown before, but never solo. Airline personnel would escort him through his pair of layovers, and my friends Garth and Christy assured me it was perfectly safe, but goddamn it, he was my kid and I was going to worry until he was back with me.
My dating life felt like it was crumbling. That started and maybe ended with Morgan, my ex-sister-in-law and the woman I'd lusted after and loved for years. Our last long-distance conversation happened while I was in bed with two of my gorgeous girlfriends, Sarah and Jenna. Morgan was into it, and stayed on the line while I fucked the pair. I confessed a number of things in that conversation, namely that much as I wanted Morgan in my life, I was deeply in love with my five girlfriends as well as her.
I don't know how Morgan would have responded to that. Her husband came home right at the tail end of our debauchery. They'd been fighting, and I think she mentioned she wanted to try and keep things together with him. Douglas was an almighty asshole, but I understood that drive to keep things together. You might fall out of love with the person themselves, but you're still so in love with the idea of love, of the forever and ever. You think your relationship just needs work, that this kind of ache is normal, and you force yourself not to realize you're miserable with the person you're with. I know. I did that for nearly ten years.
Morgan fell out of contact with me, but she was still reaching out to my son every couple of days. She was his everything, and he was hers. Where Tina fell away from motherhood slowly, after the divorce, Morgan became Isaac's tentpole, the person he trusted most when he couldn't talk to me about some of the pain and frustration of his life after the divorce. They loved each other with a ferocity I felt echoed in my own heart. If Morgan didn't want to be with me, I was okay with that. So long as she was in my son's life, I would love her forever.
The other big problem affecting me stemmed from the phone orgy too. Jenna, one of my girlfriends, always told me she didn't want to be a mother to Isaac, and I assumed what we had was temporary. I found out how temporary it was when I let the bombshell go that I loved her, Yvonne, Sarah, London, and Dakota along with Morgan. Jenna tried to tell me it should be Morgan and I in a relationship and stormed out. I haven't heard a word from her since.
Yvonne, who you might call Jenna's girlfriend within the fivesome, told me that Jenna was staying with her for the short-term. She wouldn't say much more than that. Whenever I brought Jenna up, she got this stormy expression on her face. I fucked things up. Bad. I took it too far, but I genuinely thought from some hints Jenna had been making she might love me and my son too. I guess that makes me an idiot. I knew at the beginning she didn't want to be close to us, and me telling her I loved her must have thrown too big of a wrench into the works.
All that said, I had lots to be thankful for. Even if Morgan and Jenna were now out of the picture, I still had four terrific girlfriends, all of whom I deeply loved. Then there was Victoria, Isaac's teacher and my sometime lover. We had to sneak around behind Isaac's back at my request until he moved on from her class, but she was quickly becoming one of my favorites too. On top of that, Jessica, my college-aged babysitter, was a frequent flier in my bedroom too.
Beyond the relationship stuff, my life was great. My new electrician business was booming, with plenty of work coming from both households and construction businesses looking to contract out work. Even my former employers there in Agramonte hired me from time to time, though I made sure to have it in my contract I wasn't about to crunch hours or be beholden to some jackass like my former foreman there. In another three or four months, I was confident I could pay back the personal loan a friend gave me to get things started here, with a nice buffer besides for both the business and my personal life.
And finally, there was the house. From the first day Yvonne showed it to me, I thought it felt like it could be a home, and now, months later, with some furniture and workout gear in the basement, the last of the boxes unpacked, and the place feeling more lived in, the house truly became our home. That was helped by our neighbors, and I don't just mean my girlfriends. If I filled these pages with all the times my friends Garth and Christy came by to help with things, or all the potlucks Isaac and I were invited to, or all the laughter and fun times we had with friends and acquaintances up and down the street, I'd never stop talking. It is a wonderful place, and I have thanked Yvonne a dozen times over for guiding me here. I didn't know until I lived here how much I craved community, but I do. And it's been amazing for Isaac in helping him feel less like an outsider and more like he belongs.
I was a confused mess. And just two days before Isaac was supposed to fly out, we had a Christmas party to host.
* * *
"Do I have to wear the sweater during the party?" Isaac asked.
I recoiled like I'd been snakebit. "God no. I'm not wearing this a minute more than I have to for the photograph. Grandma can never know, though."
"Deal," Isaac said.
He posed for a picture near the staircase's bannister. The two of us wound up with most the Christmas decorations from our life with Tina, and we spent a sobering weekend going through all of it and decorating. I'm not going to lie, it brought out a lot of complex emotions in Isaac, not all of them pleasant. He threw a couple ornaments and cried himself to sleep one night, then came down the next morning as apologetic and straight-up scared as I'd ever seen him. He thought he'd ruined Christmas for me, and I don't know if he ever quite got over that despite my assurances that I loved him and I understood, even if I didn't approve of the smashing.
When I got a halfway decent photo of him where his smile didn't look like he was about to go through a root canal without an anesthetic, he said, "Your turn."
"Uh, what?"
"You have to get a picture in your sweater too."
"Grandma will be perfectly happy with one of you."
Isaac gave me a devil's grin that reminded me so much of his mom in our earliest months together, when we were still wild. "Oh no. You have to. We're a team, remember?"
Oh, the little turd. Those were the exact words I'd used to get him to go to a Nutcracker ballet my girlfriend London wanted us to attend. Neither Isaac or I were exactly thrilled about the prospect, and his attention the entire night was on me, glaring with mock fury.
"I do owe you," I grumbled. I stood next to the bannister and our stockings. His was stuffed with some candy, gum, a toothbrush, and a paperback. In mine, I stuck a ribbon-wrapped bottle of Drambuie, a gift to myself I planned on cracking open the moment I got back from seeing Isaac off at the airport.
He took my picture, and hurried back to the small pile of gifts under the tree. With the new house and getting my business started, I couldn't go nuts this year, but I thought I'd done pretty all right. As he plucked a small box from under the tree from one of his relatives, I said, "Hey bud. There's something we need to talk about."
"Yeah?" he asked, holding up the box. I nodded, and he dug into it.
"I know you wanted a dog for Christmas, and the truth is, I really want one too. I promise you, we're going to get one-"
"Wait, really?" he asked, fumbling the box in his excitement.
I laughed helplessly. "Yeah. Really. But we're not going to do that for Christmas, okay? I don't feel comfortable giving animals as presents. It feels... cheap, I guess. A dog isn't something you give away like..."
"A watch," he said, holding up a digital sports watch. "Cool."
"That is cool," I said. "So maybe we'll do some looking around in January when you come home. But you need to help me raise it and walk it."
"Okay!" Isaac said. He hurried over to me and hugged me tight.
