"I like to fuck Muslim men, especially Black Muslim men with my strap-on dildo," said Mistress Choukri, smiling at the camera. In the basement of her townhouse, located in a quiet corner of the Glebe area of Ottawa, Ontario, she felt quite comfortable being interviewed by a certain reporter. Might as well shed some light about what it is I do, Mistress Choukri thought.
Mistress Choukri saw that her words and tantalizing presence had the reporter riveted. The six-foot-tall, slender and athletic, thirty-something Somali-American Muslim woman was determined to break new ground. Originally from the City of Minneapolis, Minnesota, Mistress Choukri wanted to shake things up in the Canadian Capital.
Logic would dictate that folks in the worlds of Kink and BDSM would be an open-minded and highly experimental bunch. The conservatisms that Mistress Choukri encountered among kinky folks in Ottawa stunned her. The world of BDSM is largely segregated, with Black and brown folks playing over here, while White folks play over there. People avoided one another, and judged each other's kinks. That's simply no way to be...
To Mistress Choukri, the whole thing seemed kind of funny, and by the same token, kind of sad. The same woman who enjoys getting fucked in every hole by a group of men of different races and ethnicities looks down on another woman who has a fart fetish, for example. As if one lady's kink is better than that of another...
Mistress Choukri's explorations of the kink world revealed even greater levels of hypocrisy. The same gay man who enjoys sex exclusively with other men frowns upon two bisexual men and an open-minded woman getting their freak on any which way they can. Apparently, women who enjoy sex with bisexual men make gay men feel threatened...and obsolete.
"Kink is swirling with hypocrites so an honest woman like myself must shed some light on things," Mistress Choukri said, and the reporter remained silent, unsure how to respond. Mistress Choukri shook her head, thinking of the biggest hypocrites she'd seen. The macho man who dominates his female subs looks down on men who enjoy getting dominated by strong women. Apparently, one type of submission is more okay than the other.
Folks in the world of Kink are so hypocritical it's not even funny, at least, that was Mistress Choukri's contention. She recalled feeling appalled when she met a butch lesbian woman, a short-haired, tattooed, muscular dyke, who couldn't admit to her more feminine girlfriend that she enjoyed riding her strap-on dildo. Apparently, even butch lesbians had to live up to the macho bullshit that so many men used to restrict themselves...
What irked Mistress Choukri the most is that the Black and brown folks in the world of BDSM were afraid of their own sexuality and desires. They were out there, performing for their White girlfriends and White boyfriends, but they were afraid to play with those who looked like them. Well, something ought to be done about that...
"You're very progressive," said reporter Ismail Tilahun, speaking for the Lifestyle Section of Ottawa Action News or O.A.N. Mistress Choukri nodded, looking at the stocky, dark-skinned reporter. Ismail looked like a respectable gentleman in a nice two-piece silver suit. The brother, originally from the nation of Ethiopia, was also oozing submission out of every pore, that much was obvious to Mistress Choukri...
Mistress Choukri had met Ismail's type before, prim and proper in public, but freaky in private. They were truly nothing new. Ismail was considered a respectable reporter in the world of Canadian news. Ismail had a wife and two daughters, and often spoke of his alma mater, the University of Ottawa. The dude didn't do the report on the BDSM lifestyle and the social mores of Canadian society by accident, he had some weird interests of his own...
"Thank you, I aim to please," Mistress Choukri replied, and she then explained to Ismail exactly what she did. A lot of folks in the vanilla world, as BDSM lovers call the normal world, have a lot of crazy ideas and misconceptions about the BDSM lifestyle. They think it's for weirdoes, freaks and sexual extremists. This simply couldn't be further from the truth...