IPW, Part 1
The day I left for the conference, my partner walked me to the door, smiled and said, "Remember, baby, this time is your time. Yes, you're there to learn and network, but if you wanna have some fun? You have my full blessing and support, as long as you adhere to our three agreements," and then we counted them down, the way we always did when one or the other of us would leave for an overnight.
"Number one, be safe," I said, and gave her a kiss on the cheek.
"Number two, have fun," I said, giving her a kiss back on her cheek.
"And number three," we said together, "Feel free to bring me in if you want, otherwise, I can't wait to hear about it after," and we kissed, hard on the lips, her grabbing my ass tight and me squeezing hers back.
Because we were in different industries -- me in tourism, her in healthcare -- we unfortunately didn't get to attend the same conferences, but we did our best to be in touch constantly while one or the other of us was on the road, and via text or phone or FaceTime, we'd found we could be present at the conference but also maintain presence at home. Which was important, as we were in somewhat of a new relationship, and still building trust and sortof feeling one another out (so to speak, that's what she said lol).
My recent business trips had mostly just been single overnights, but this conference I was headed to in Orlando was for 5 nights -- the longest I'd been away from her since we'd gotten together, and yet both of us were confident and comfortable in our new relationship, with a super high level of communication which neither of us had had in our previous relationships (mine with a man, her with another woman). So this was definitely going to be a test.
And not only a test for us in general, but we'd also been talking recently about each other's fantasies, delving into things we'd done and also things we still had left to do, things we still wanted to try. And I'd admitted to her that I had a fascination with the idea of being watched by her, at being directed by her, and at being serviced by multiple partners at once. If I was being honest -- and I was being very honest with her -- the gender of the multiple partners was irrelevant. While I've learned over the years that I'm predisposed to love pussy more than dick and therefore am attracted more often to women, I've also learned that when properly schooled, certain men can really over-deliver when it comes to pleasuring me. And that a dick covered with my juices from being inside me is a tasty treat for me and therefore a win-win for both people involved when I lick those juices off.
Or, as I was to learn on this trip, ALL people involved.
The first two days and nights were pretty typical -- and pretty busy. All day long activity and meetings on the show floor, and evenings for client dinners could get pretty exhausting. I found time during and "in between" to check in with home and make sure my baby was doing well, and I was happy to see she was. That allowed me to feel good about where I was, what I was doing, and with who. It was fun as always to see my "conference wives," women I'd known and seen at shows for years, and with whom I often started the day with coffee and ended the nights with drinks. Good friends, women I liked trusted respected loved, and about whom I'd definitely fantasized a time or two, but nothing had happened between us.
It was also great to see a couple of my "conference husbands," and in contrast with my conference wives, there the history was slightly different, as I'd had a multi-year relationship with one that had been wonderfully intimate, both emotionally and physically. The other one? Welllll, I suppose I'd say it was maybe a bit more complicated, in that I'd definitely engaged in some fun flirtatious activity with him, even going so far as sexting with him on several occasions in which we'd both been brought to orgasms. The sexting was that good -- his writing was vivid, creative and very intense.
Still, at this point, just two days in, everyone was focused on the professional side of being here, so the conversations and interactions were all platonic. Although I have to say, without wanting to sound arrogant or anything, I did notice more than a few extra long looks come my way -- as I approached, seeing the up and down glance while wearing a particularly colorful and well-fitting dress, and on a day I chose to wear pants? Definitely caught one or two glimpses of my ass as I walked away...confidence boosters, for sure. It felt good.
It was remarkable though to see the change when day three rolled around. First of all, I'd woken up simmering, after an extra special FaceTime call with my girl the night before which started out just as an update on our respective days. I'd told her that I'd seen my "wives" and my "husbands," and her response was the by now very funny and familiar, "Oh reeeeallly...?," with her eyebrows going up and a big smile on her face, implication being how does it feel, how are you doing, where's your interest level at playing.
I smiled in reply, and told her no sparks yet, but that if sparks were going to happen, and if I was gonna feel it and see if I was gonna go with it, it would likely start on day 3. Today. I checked in with her to make sure that was all cool, and she confirmed it absolutely was, that she was excited if I was excited, and as long as we played by the agreements, she'd be all good with it.
Our talk about being with other people, and having the other person watch and/or know about it, was incredibly exciting to both of us, and the call wound up in what we call a "watch party," where we talk to each other, tell us what we want to be doing to and with and for one another, and then watch each other as we both arrive at amazing orgasms. Fuck, her voice is so sexy and her pussy is so beautiful, and practically every word she speaks gets me going, turns me on -- let's just say it doesn't take long for me to cum and it feels sooooo good.
She told me how much she'd love to be there with me, and I confirmed how fun and enjoyable that would be, and that maybe we could figure out some way to make that happen. She looked at me questioningly, but I just said, "Something I'm thinking about, tell you more later." "Mmmm, okay baby," she smiled in reply, satisfied but also curious and trusting.
That was how day 3 started. I had no idea then how it would end...
I wasn't kidding anyone, least of all myself, by saying I had no idea how it would end. What I DID have, though, was an idea of where I wanted it to end. Or at least, where I wanted it to head, where I hoped that by the end of the day it might be moving towards.
In order to do that, in order to manifest what I imagined, I had to put some things in play first. I wasn't always comfortable doing that, but the talk with my girl last night, and a brief text exchange with her while I was still in bed that morning, gave me not only the confidence that I could do it, but also the certainty that she was ok with it, that she trusted me, and that I could take her at her word that what was exciting to me would also be exciting to her.
The texts from her this morning had been FIRE to wake up to.
"Baby?" she'd written.
"Who you gonna dial up today?"
"You gonna dial up the wives? Or you gonna dial up the husbands?"