I strained to hear Aidan's car drive away, but all I could hear was the sound of a distant motorboat somewhere out on the lake that lay a hundred feet below our deck. I started to move my head to see if I could see it, but events of the day and in particular, the last several hours, swirled in my head, and I just couldn't move. Of course, spending almost an entire day and evening drinking maybe a little too much of this season's most superb wines didn't help either.
Undemanding, yet delivers
With eyes half open, I stared blissfully at the twinkling stars that filled the dark Texas sky high overhead. Lying nude with Thom next to me on a double chaise lounge beside our hot tub, I was exhausted, satisfied, and happy. I hoped he felt the same -- as the events of the last several hours were undoubtedly out of the ordinary for both of us.
I felt Thom's fingers lightly brush mine. I quickly opened my hand and interlocked my fingers with his. He responded by tightly squeezing my hand, reassuring me that he was as happy as I was. What a relief and Oh My God, what an evening! Memories of our last mΓ©nage Γ trois filled my head, but that was over thirty years ago when we were both college students and newlyweds. Our guest lover that evening, so long ago, had been another woman -- but tonight it had been another
man
!
The day started innocently enough. It was late summer, and another season of the Texas Hill Country wine tours had begun. Local wineries team up each year with wine tasting marathon weekends to unveil their latest creations and promote local wines in general. This was one such weekend.
As these tours generally cover many miles and many pours of delightful wines, it's usually a good idea not to do your own driving. As we had done before, we got a group of friends together and chartered a mini-bus with a driver. Split between four to six couples it's really not that expensive, and of course, a whole lot cheaper than a DUI.
The cast of characters were pretty much the usual suspects.
Mild, yet not bland
First, there was Mark and Vicki -- friends we had known for almost twenty years. Back in Austin, our kids and their kids had grown up together and had been fast friends since pre-school. We were never really close personal friends ourselves, but we attended the same church (when the kids were younger), we both participated in youth sports, PTA and Scouts and in general, watched our kids grow up together. Since our kids graduated high school and we moved out to the lake, we don't see them nearly as often. But they are still in the circle of friends, and we meet for dinner and similar social events, probably six or seven times a year -- this was one of those events.
Firm, fruity & well packed
Then there was Jim and Stephanie. Jim and Thom had been business partners for many years; well, not actually partners in the legal sense but shared an office suite along with some of the office staff and facilities. Both are semi-retired now, but still golfing buddies and very close personal friends. Stephanie, on the other hand, is one of those people you just sort of shake your head at and wonder -- what planet is she really from? We always marvel at how they stay married, or even more curious -- why? Stephanie has never worked -- inside or outside the home. She is an unbelievable spendthrift; never saw a pair of shoes she didn't just
have to have
? Complains about everything and is in general nuttier than squirrel shit. But even after four kids, she is still drop-dead gorgeous and very much the trophy wife Jim married some twenty years ago. Besides, she has never met a man she won't flirt with, so from the husbands' point of view, she is indispensable on these little weekend outings.
Nutty, with a kick
Then there is Pat and Amy. Pat is male, but none of us are really sure how much so. It's ironic that he has such an androgynous name because it certainly seems to fit him. Pat is a lovely guy and would do absolutely anything for you; he even holds doors open for men as well as women. Pat works for the State in some mindless bureaucratic dark hole and is probably the most pussy-whipped guy Thom, and I have ever known. Amy, on the other hand, is a teacher friend of mine and is very much Pat's opposite. During most of the school day, she is your typical middle school math teacher; but she is also the head coach of the girls' volleyball team and an assistant coach to both the girls and the boys swim teams. She doesn't have an ounce of body fat on her, is an absolute dynamo of energy, clearly wears the pants in the family and is one of my dearest and closest friends. I love her to pieces.
Delivers complexity
And finally, there was Aidan and Nancy -- or it was supposed to be Aidan and Nancy, but only Aidan showed up. Back in town, they had been our next-door neighbors for twenty-four years. Our kids played with their kids, we shared every imaginable lawn and garden implement over the years, our pantry was their pantry and vice-a-versa and growing up, our kids probably spent more time in each other's backyard pool than their own.
We had always assumed they had the perfect marriage, or I guess I should say we never had any reason to believe otherwise. Aidan was in computer sales and traveled a lot on business, but he was always home on week-ends and seemed like the perfect husband and dad. Nancy was a stay at home mom until the kids were in high school. That's when she took a job as the administrative assistant to a downtown stockbroker. I'm sure it was a very stressful job, and I know she was very nervous about it at first, but over time she seemed to absolutely love it, and as the kids left home, it became more and more an integral part of her life.