Do all men have fantasies about their wives' female friends? I think they do.
My husband has had a thing for my friends for years. He has made it very clear that he is attracted to a few of them. I can't blame him, as I do have some very attractive friends.
I love teasing him with sexy stories about them. He loves to hear about some of their adventures. It's funny how he gets so worked up over it.
Any chance of him hooking up with any of my friends is just a wild fantasy, something that will never happen. All my friends are respectful and classy. I just couldn't see anything ever happening with any of them or my husband.
I have several close female friends that I have known for many years. He likes all my friends, but it's Sonia and Wendy that he fantasises about in particular.
Sonia is Eastern European and has never married. She has lived with different men on and off. Sonia is gorgeous, with dark hair, blue eyes, and a light complexion. She is tall and thin and could pass for a model. She is the wild one. She's never been shy and always says what's on her mind, which, of course, gets her into all kinds of situations. I have never been out with Sonia when men weren't hitting on her. It doesn't matter where we are, the grocery store, coffee shop, she is just a magnet for men. My husband has known her for many years and has always loved her.
About ten years ago, Sonia got breast implants. She came over to the house and couldn't wait to show me her new acquisitions. My husband happened to be home, but Sonia is far from shy. She just opened up her blouse to show us. She was so proud. She even let my husband touch them, with my permission, of course. My husband still fondly talks about that day.
Wendy, on the other hand, is the sweet and proper type. She married her high school sweetheart, has two kids, and life is good. She is the typical mom with the minivan. She is very attractive in a cute way. She is the youngest of the group. I have always considered Wendy as my baby sister. My husband has always fantasised about both Wendy and Sonia, even though they seem to be complete opposites.
My friends and I usually get together a couple of times a year at one of our homes. It's a girl's night out. We catch up on life, update on men and bitch about partners, accompanied by lots of wine. It's always a fun evening.
It was my turn to host, so I told my husband they were coming over the following week. Well, he started in about his fantasies, just like a kid. His birthday was coming up, and since he didn't really need or want anything, he said the least I could do was hear him out, so I did. Yeah, just like a kid.
A little bit of background: when we were dating, I surprised him with a threesome with my friend Jenny for his birthday. Back then, every guy that I dated asked me for a threesome with Jenny after they met her. I always had the same response: "I already had a threesome with Jenny. You just weren't there."
My husband never asked me for a threesome when we were dating. In fact, he never mentioned Jenny, although I'm sure he was thinking all kinds of naughty things. I found this to be very respectful, and so I surprised him on his birthday. To this day, he says that was the best birthday gift ever, and that's when he decided he wanted to marry me. I'm sure he was hoping that Jenny was part of the package.
I decided to play along and hear out his fantasy. He had this fantasy that he would stay up in our bedroom when the girls arrived and watch TV, so he couldn't hear us. Then, throughout the evening, I'd ask the girls if they wanted to go up and play with my husband.They would knock on the door and he would blindfold himself and lie on the bed and wait.
There would be no talking allowed... only music or the TV in the background to mask sounds.They could do whatever they wanted to him, preferably of a sexual nature. When completed, they would leave without saying a word.
Obviously, he had given this a lot of thought. I joked and added that he wasn't allowed to touch or grab them and he couldn't ask me which friend it was. It would be more erotic to never know. Those were my rules. He quickly agreed and was thrilled at the possibilities.
Of course, I laughed. I told him there wasn't a hope in hell that any of my friends would play along. But I had a plan, so I agreed that I would ask my friends. There are no guarantees, so don't get your hopes up.I think he was shocked that I had agreed to his birthday fantasy. He was thrilled.
Since his birthday was coming up and I had no idea what to get him, I thought I would trick him into thinking one of my friends went up to visit him. This would be a gift he would never forget, and it would drive him crazy trying to think of whom it was.
I had no intention of asking my friends if they wanted to play with my husband. I planned that sometime during our girls' night I would excuse myself and go up to the bedroom. I would pretend to be one of my friends. Since the rules were that he had to be blindfolded, no talking, and he wasn't allowed to touch, it shouldn't be too hard to pull off. My plan was to sneak into our bedroom and give him a hand job or blowjob before sneaking out. He would be on cloud nine and forever grateful. I was so proud of myself for coming up with this plan. It was not only exciting, but it also got me off the hook for a gift.
The day of our get-together finally arrived. That evening, before my friends arrived, my husband showered, shaved, and even put on some cologne. I commented that he didn't even clean up this much for me. I reminded him that the chances of anything happening were pretty remote. I was setting him up for my plan. He was eager and hopeful as ever. He shut himself in our bedroom just as the doorbell rang.
It was a beautiful evening, so as my friends arrived, we all sat outside on the deck. The wine was flowing like always, and we were all having a great time catching up. There were five of us; Laura, Cathy, Wendy, Sonia, and myself.
Laura although not a looked is a lovely lady with a kind heart. She is a few pounds overweight and is married with kids. Of all my friends, she seemed to have a genuinely strong attraction to my husband. She always asked about him, and I could tell she liked him as much as he liked her.