We started looking for my trainer on adult sites, sex clubs and every once in a while, I'd overhear Joe talking to one of our friends about it. With each guy we met, we'd add new rules to our list as well as things we wanted to try. Sometimes we would go to the guys' place and sometimes we would host. Joe preferred hosting so he could have all his toys and his cameras in place to record us. And as you can imagine finding a trainer took a grip of time and though we met some great guys, a trainer for me was looking like it wasn't gonna happen.
Several of the men had prior experience with couples, but none were used to being in control...they were all happy to do what Joe told them and as they got more comfortable they'd express their desires and there were a couple who eventually got a little bossy and did a really good job at making me feel totally slutty. One guy started bringing me little outfits to wear and one guy, I'll call him Christian, would walk in our home, come right up to me and pull me close...stick is finger in my pussy and pull away my top so he could suck my nipples. Joe always loved this, he really got off on someone else taking control and treating me like their slut. But this guy...he really knew how to get Joe and I going, and one evening he showed up at our place, unannounced. Apparently, he had called Joe earlier and Joe told him we had plans with another friend and maybe he could swing by later.