I'm Michael, informal chairman of our swingers club, partly because I'm senior member at age 45, mostly because my wife Beth and I own the rural estate where we meet. Beth and I are enthusiastic about the lifestyle, but we like careful selection of members and rules that assure mutual respect. In our first installment - 'Hot Scenes - Our Swinger Club Ch. 1' - you met Sandra, Ricardo and Ned, three of our veteran members enjoying the kind of fantasy that is our club specialty. The game wasn't fair at all. Poor Sandra was destined to lose, but she didn't mind.
For this installment, we thought you might enjoy learning how we make new members comfortable if they are new to the lifestyle. I handle the male role in our orientation sessions.so will be handling today's 'Session One' with Pete and Jackie. I'm a 6'3" fitness coach today, once a starting mid-fielder in the International Hockey League -- so a physical guy that women seem to enjoy being with. Handsome? Maybe not so much anymore. My face and body carry the scars of a career that features wall slams, fistfights, flying pucks and crazy bastards trying to whack you with their stick.
Our club's goal in Session One is NOT to indoctrinate the couple, but rather to help them be sure they are making a good decision. Many couples fantasize about making love to a stranger or a friend. Threesome is a common fantasy. Scene's such as the bondage seduction of Sandra are common fantasies. But for some couples, the reality triggers emotions that can be unexpectedly powerful and can be destructive to the marriage.
So Pete and Jackie are aware that their first session will let them gradually experience stages of physical activity, with either allowed to signal STOP at any time. My role today tests the most common pitfall, that the husband can't handle another man becoming gradually more intimate with his wife. (If necessary, Sandra or Julie provide the reverse experiment; whether the wife is really okay with her husband becoming intimate with another woman.)
We have suggested that Jackie wear a front-buttoning sundress, bra-less, with panties she views as erotic. Some couples ask about the wife going commando because they view sans panties as sexier. I explain that the gradual 'reveal' is better for the purposes of Session One.
I wear the men's equivalent of V-cut short-shorts, without shirt.. Husband Pete is dressed as if ready to play a tennis match. It doesn't matter much what he wears. This session focuses on Jackie.
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I walk into our room that consists of a king-size four-poster bed and a corner sitting area with two leather couches. Candlelight provides all illumination, with candles gleaming on two bed-stands, on the corner coffee table, and in four wall-mounted lantern fixtures. Soft music is playing from ceiling speakers. Pete and Jackie are side-by-side on one of the couches, his wine glass is on the table in front of him, Jackie is holding her glass, but puts it on the coffee table as I enter.
I know they are 37 and 35, career professionals who live in a small metro area 35 miles away. Pete is a professional-looking guy, and he looks much like his application photos. Jackie would qualify as a stunning blond, and is more attractive than I expected, possibly because of golden hair highlighted by candlelight or possibly because of special make up for the evening. Her sundress is perfect, mini-length, neckline to hem buttons, yellow with red accents, cut low across her breasts. I walk toward them. "Greetings, I'm Michael."
They stand. Pete extends his hand: a solid grip, steady grey eyes, strong features. He says, "Good to meet you." Jackie extends her hand, too. Her blue eyes sparkle in the light. Her smile is dazzling, but I sense she thinks it's humorous that she is formally shaking my hand.
"Pete, if you'll allow me, I'll begin with a dance with your bride." Her husband gestures his permission and sits. I lead Jackie to the center of the room and extend my arms. She glides toward me, our eyes maintaining contact that already feels warm and comfortable. She is tall, at least 5'9", so her arms slide easily around my neck. I begin with hands at her hips, so our dance is really a loose embrace, far enough apart to maintain eye contact.
"You are very beautiful, Jackie."
Her eyes are warm, but laughing.. "Thank you. You are very beautiful, Michael." And she uses her right hand to rub from my shoulder to mid-chest and back.
I chuckle, "The last woman that called me beautiful was my mother, and I was six months old."
"Okay, how 'bout ruggedly handsome?" She smiles warmly and again runs her hand across my chest.
"Good enough." I found myself admiring her spirit, the sense of humor, the easy way she is settling into the scene, even her aggressive use of her hands. Most newbies have a period of nervous contemplation and inaction. But while I'm admiring her spirit, the manly man within is visualizing the pleasure of taming this filly.