The add read simply "soft swing parties" and a phone number. The number was answered by a soft woman's voice. She asked a few questions. Was I familiar with Soft Swing parties? Was I married? Did my wife want to participate? Had we done this before? She told me her name was Donna. She would be wearing a blue square dance costume Wednesday night in the lobby of a local hotel. Mary and I should meet her there.
Arriving, we joined three couples and two apparently single men meeting with her. She explained the clubs philosophy. A members only club, mainly for committed couples from 25 to 40, they rent a large house in the country for use exclusively as a Party House. They encourage up to 3 visits before requiring membership, they also allow a few selected singles, both male and female, as members. No more than 7 men for each 5 women are allowed to attend any party, she explained that women can handle more men, than men can women, we all laughed at how true that was. But, to many single men could make the women feel used and the men feel left out. She explained, that while looks are important, looks are not everything. Only " beautiful people" are members, but not all members are "hard bodies". She said she would call us with an invitation.
She called the next night. The directions were easy to follow and we arrive at the large isolated farmhouse well before 8:30 the following Saturday evening. A couple in their late Thirties greeted us by asking if we were Dan and Mary. Tom and Linn were assigned to show us around and explain the rules.
A large nicely decorated house, there is a large living-dining room, and a kitchen-bar, and the garage is now a dance hall. There is a patio with a Hot Tub with a changing/shower area adjoining it. The patio is the only area where smoking is allowed. The most striking thing were the bedrooms. One room contained 8 cubicles each a little larger than a double bed, each with curtains; these are for couples that want privacy. Another room has 4 larger than King bed cubicles, these are for threesomes and foursomes that want privacy. Another changing area with another shower adjoins the lower and upper group rooms. One room is called a Hard Swing Room for those willing to take on all comers. The other group room is mainly for those who wish to watch and be watched, they may allow you to join in, but you must ask first.
The most important rule, the one that could get you kicked out is, No voyeurism in the private areas. As important is, No asking to join in, in the private area. Nudity is allowed and even encouraged everywhere except that No nudity is allowed in the living room, dining room, bar or kitchen before midnight. No sex, except in the rooms before 1:00 AM. Those and a few more rules were explained and we were shown where they were posted in case we needed to check them.
The next 2 hours we enjoy ourselves, eating from the plentiful buffet, drinking from the full bar, and conversing with many of the nearly 2 dozen couples who are attending what amounts to a party at their social club. Most are in their Thirties, with a few in their Forties. Most are very attractive, but it's obvious that looks are not the only consideration for membership. We seem to be the youngest here.
Mary is 24, 5'9" 36C X 26 X 36 with long blond hair and blue eyes and is extremely attractive. She was a 17 y/o virgin when we met. I am 27, 6'2" 200 lbs. and have been told I am a Hunk. We have been married just over 5 years.
