This is the story from Mizz and I's first foray into having encounters with other people in "that way".
We had been going to BDSM and fetish house parties for some time but it was our little secret, the two of us never really brought up the "swinging" topic at all in the first year and a half of fetish/kink.
All that changed one day when we were online just checking our accounts on a fetish networking website and low and behold we found our best friends Gem and Thomas!
Gem and Thomas both work with me and when I joined the company we became fast friends. They were both married to other people at that time but since split from their marriages and got together.
Gem was a stick of dynamite. 5'0" long black hair, glasses. Wonderful 34DDs and a great ass. Thomas was fit maybe 5'9" shaved head and my best bud at work and on our weekends off. They were both into the BDSM and kink lifestyle and not afraid to kiss and tell, while Mizz and I were more discreet in our extra curricular activities.
Even if it was just a house party here and there where we let loose a little we still enjoyed "our secret ". Sex with others was just not in the equation. Mizz and Gem would make out at parties and lick whipped cream off each others tits for wow factor but that was harmless fun between friends as far as we saw it.
And then that day I ran into their profiles on the website the winds started changing. Something about seeing your best friends exposed with all their kinks and curiosities listed was pretty awesome. I screenshot-ed their profiles and texted them to Mizz who was at work.
Almost immediately she responded with " holy shit!, we should msg them ;-)". And with that. I messaged Gem and Mizz sent Thomas a note through the sites messenger tool. Something playful but flirty just so our friends knew the jig was up.
They were a little embarrassed at first for some reason but then excited that they had not only friends on there but good friends, nothing much was spoken after the shock of being outed, aside from us commenting and liking each others photos.
One weekend we all planned on meeting up at their house for a cookout. It had been long enough that the memory of our online fun was just that... A memory, as the night wore on the subject turned to sex and kink. With them asking more about our adventures with fetish parties and what we had in our "toy chest", the four of us were outside after eating just enjoying the conversation and some wine.
After some minor talk the girls went upstairs to go play show and tell with some new gear and sexy cloths Gem bought while Thomas and I cleaned up the patio and put away all the dishes and such from cooking out.
"Hey man, you guys have any new playdates?" He asked me.
Not really I replied, just some fetish parties.
At that point in our journey we still were figuring out what we were into as far as roles and scenes we liked or curious about.
Thomas broke in with a joke that we should just go upstairs and get the girls naked and see what happens.
"come on, they are plenty buzzed enough" he said. I laughed it off. Explaining that it really wasn't our thing to play like that with others.
He then went on that they were in the same spot when they started dating. After a while and the trust was there, they began bringing in others to their bed. Its great man, he said and the girls are best friends and we are cool so it's not like we are strangers... He did have a point, and who doesn't fancy seeing their wife in bed with another hot little lass, let alone while you are fucking.