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Breakfast:
I asked Li about her date.
"Ya, it was fun, we are going out again tonight. He is awesome, we shared a lot, we stayed at Mel's till closing, and chatted more outside before we parted. He went for a kiss, I turned, and he gave me one on the cheek, he asked me why I turned. I shared my std rule, he kissed my forehead, said he understood and respected that, then we agreed to another date tonight." The girls giggling chattering.
"Oh Li, that's great, I hope he is the one, he better be awesome, you deserve the best. Jack our contractor and his wife are coming for wine tonight." I speak.
"Have a good day all." Carmen and Li head out.
"Dad, what are we doing, tonight?" Sherry asks.
"Maybe nothing, maybe a new couple to play, you don't have to do anything you don't want to, if you don't vibe; just excuse yourself politely, no judgement. I do want you to meet them and share some wine. Then decide."
I Text Jack: all set for tonight, we are ready, Jack be attentive with Mia, compliment her lots. I sent her some private instructions. Do not inquire about those please, she will share tomorrow. I want you to recall the vest sex you ever had with her. Then Imagine, fantasize about a wild sex experience you'd like soon to have happen.
Wear a loose-fitting shirt, and comfortable pants, no underwear. Do not share this info with Mia until tomorrow.
Reply: Looking forward to it, see you around 7
Mary and I go to the new house, painters are finishing up, flooring crew has started. We visit the bar; painters have started there. Lunch at Mel's.
After supper, Li went on a date. We're waiting for Jack and Mia.
"Welcome."
"Come in" Jack is wearing a pale-yellow polo shirt and casual tan pants; he hands Mary 2 bottles of wine.
Mia's stunning, 5'7" maybe 120lbs, wearing a strapless cotton, flowered summer dress, mid-thigh length, the elastic top accentuates her voluptuous, 36c's non sagging, breasts. Longer than shoulder length yellow, blonde hair. Gorgeous blue eyes, nice legs, a great tan.
I take her hand, raise it above her head twirl her around. "Look at you, absolutely alluring. Jack you lucky dog, Mia you are gorgeous, do you do modeling?"
"Uh no, thank-you" she is blushing.
I present her to the room.
"May I?" I twirl her again.
"Wow, very nice" Mary states. We go to the couch.
"Sit here please." I offer them wine, already poured.
"Jack, Mia, this is my wife, Mary. This is Sherry and Carmen our 3rd Li is on a date."
"Doug, Mary, you're too young to have adult kids" Mia exclaimed.
"Yes, we are, a story, to be told another time, not sure who adopted who, but we all live together. We are truly a happy family."
"Ok, tonight's about you guys; relax, please share some history, and we'll take it from there" I raise a glass.
"To new beginnings" everyone touches glasses.
"We went to high school together, neither of us went to college. I got a part time construction job, in high school; full time when I graduated. Mia worked housekeeping at the hospital.
We married at 20 and 18. 2 years later, our daughter Jenny arrived, she's now 12, Jimmy came 2 years later. We hit a rough patch, around then, but got through it because our love was strong, and we fought for our marriage. Now we're fighting for it again, we refuse to give up."
"Congratulations on getting through" "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" I hear.
"Ok, well I have several questions to evaluate what, or how to help direct your future."
"Mia how do you spend a typical evening?"
"Well, I am generally preparing supper, the kids are either doing homework or video games. Jack greets me; sometimes he goes for a shower, if he worked hard, other times he visits in the kitchen with a beer."
"Is he affectionate when he comes home?"
"No, we don't, in case the kids come in."
"Interesting, please think about this, if you don't teach loving intimacy to your kids where will they learn it?" I pour more wine, take a drink,
"That's a topic for later."
"Mia would you like Jack to hug and kiss you when he arrives or leaves?"
"Oh yes, very much, who wouldn't"
"Exactly, so Mia, Jack, start tomorrow, trust me the kids may react with, ewww, yuck, get a room, but it affirms to them their parents aren't divorcing, they still care/love, they'll feel more secure."
"Which, excuse me, girls if this is boring, you may go do something else."
"No, I am learning too."
"Me too" I give them both a wink, a nod and smile.
"Ok, Mia continue."
"After the meal, Jack generally goes to the tv or his office, I clean the kitchen, make sure kids are ready for school tomorrow, clothes, sports, band, you know, being a mom."
"Tough job, again we have good advice for that area, but another time. So, then, do you watch tv, how much time there?"
"Well about 2 hours but we get the kids to bed in that time."
"You both put them to bed?"
"Yes, Jack spends some time with Jimmy and I with Jenny, chatting, or reading, being there for them; then we switch to kiss them good night."
"Wow, think about that, for a second, you show affection to them; but not to each other, right." I sip some wine.
"Very good, you two, we're off to a great start; are you guys ready to walk out on this crackpot invading your lives?"
"No, you make good sense, I am really impressed." Jack pours more wine.
"Me too" Mia smiles. Damn she is good looking, so sexy.
"Me too dad" Sherry kisses my cheek.
"See guys does affection not look good?" I hold up my glass we all have a drink.
"Here is my first suggestion; be intimate, show each other your affection, show everyone, everywhere, you're in love."
"When you were dating, and early in marriage were you necking, making out, caressing, copping feels?"
"Yes" Mia blushes.
"When did you stop, kids?" they both nod.
"Ya, well time to start again, it's your home, do what feels good. Teach your kids, explain why and how to properly hug, how to shake hands, how to be friendly, just a few minutes a night. If you don't, where will they learn? Someone, at school, on the internet?"
I pause to let the question sink in.
"Mia, Jenny is at a very vulnerable age, her internet is her teacher, sex, hormones; ok maybe I'm off topic again, sorry, another time for that too."
"Time to focus on you; a perfect time if anyone needs a pee break or a stretch." I refill glasses.
"Doug, you are really smart, I have already gained much knowledge" Mia smiles and clinks my glass.
"I can tell you are a strong, loving couple. A friend, who we recently saved their marriage, used the phrase 'we scraped off the rust, and showed them how to polish the trophy.' I borrowed the phrase and modified it. 'Remove the rust, polish your trophy daily.' You are each other's trophy, so in your case, fill in the rut, and polish the trophy, each other. Jack and Mia, stand please; look into each other's eyes," I pause,
"Hold hands, repeat these words."
