I always look forward to Friday evenings. Not just because they are the beginnings of the weekend, but because they are "date" nights for my fiancΓ©, Mikki and I. I put the word in quotes because we put a twist on the definition.
Most couples who feel the need to designate specific nights as date nights are trying to carve some time to be together out of otherwise hectic schedules. That, or their relationships have deteriorated from what they once were, and date nights are an attempt at salvage. So, they set aside time to go out like they used to when things were fresh, hoping to rekindle that spark.
The spark between Mikki and I is still very fresh, so our date nights have a different purpose; indulging our lust. On Friday nights, I come home to possibility. Mikki doesn't work, and has all week to wander around town, make friends, and get to know people. Sometimes, one or two of those people will be at my house when I come home from work. Mikki may or may not be there.
When there IS someone there, it is for sex, pure and simple. It might be a couple looking to swap. Or a single man or woman. Or some other combination. Or it might just be Mikki. Sometimes, when it's a single person, they're there to play only with one of us. When that's the case, the other plays the part of spectator. This is the case fairly often, since Mikki is a sexy woman, and finding play partners who are open to both sides of the fence is more difficult to do.
There ARE those evenings when I open the door to find my lovely girl alone. On those occasions, one of three dynamics takes place:
1) She wants to be in charge, and I serve her desires.