In Asia, it is hard to find open minded people as the whole culture is mainly conservative. My stay overseas have opened my mind and also widened my horizon. As readers of my previous blogs may remember, I discovered nude and glamour photography, nudism, swinging and tantric. Kama sutra was so overused. Tantric is the way to go. Coming to Asia, I have to curtail my expectations of finding such things here. "A definite no! no!" I said to myself.
So I went to Asia to do my research work and ended up being offered a job. So my short stint somehow turned into a more permanent stay. Well, work was monotonous. The company was typical old family type that has grown big and successful. Even more conservative and I were there to bring changes and restructuring. The general managers were all over 40s and some in their 50s. They were too entrenched to accept any changes. Despite that, I stayed for a few years. It was during this period I gotten to know my first local girlfriend. It was good whilst it last. She left me in a lurch when I was away and told me over the phone. The second girlfriend was slim and nice small breasts. Clean shaven pussy and ever so tight but bony too. That didn't turn out well too but I took it as a steep romance learning curve.
It was here I got to know more people and my work in the photography somehow opened conversation. Then online, I got to know a guy and he is a swinger with his fiancΓ©e, now his wife. He organized swinging party and invited me too. He later opened a yahoo groups dedicated to the local swinging scene. Thru here, I got to know a relatively young couple. They are in their late 20s and the guy was lucky to have his own place. They meet up during weekend and were exploring the possibility of having 3some. They are engaged and keen to try new things. He was turned on seeing her gal being taken by another.