My wife was reading this forum and suggested that I post our story here, so here it goes.
My wife and I were coming up on our fifth wedding anniversary and she suggested that we take a trip with just the two of us. We are both on our second marriage and we both have a child from our previous marriage. We normally travel with them, so it was a little of an unusual request for her but it also made sense being that it was our 5 year anniversary. Our children are older so letting them stay with their respective other parent was an easy solution to being able to travel alone. When we travel I usually go along for the ride, meaning my wife does most of the planning. That isn't to say I am a pacifist in the relationship, I am just fine to defer travel planning to her and I trust her opinions on what we will both enjoy. She told me she found a resort in Mexico that was adults only and geared toward "the sexually liberated."
I asked what that meant and she explained that based on what she read it wasn't like one of the famous Jamaican sex resorts, but that it was adults only and that the people that go tend to be uninhibited, there are very few rules including clothing optional, and from what she read people go there to have fun. I was a little confused and asked what she had hoped to get out of it. We have a good marriage and I thought we were both very happy and satisfied (an opinion my wife later strongly affirmed on her end too), so I wasn't sure what she was suggesting this for. I was kind of thrown off a little bit and also nervous about agreeing since I didn't know what to expect. She just said she didn't know and wasn't sure herself, but that she thought it might be fun to try. I asked her what trying meant, and she just said going there and experiencing the environment. I asked what I should prepare myself for, meaning did she have any possible outcomes in mind. I think I was probably sounding insecure, so I stopped the line of questions.
Later that night we were having a glass of wine after dinner and my wife said that if I was uncomfortable we would do something else. I said I didn't know whether to be comfortable or uncomfortable because she wasn't explaining what she was hoping to do on this trip. She then said that she thought it might be fun to try going topless in public. She then asked if I would be okay with that. I thought about it and reasoned that we would be around people that we would never see again, and I thought it might be kind of erotic and maybe stimulating to see my wife naked in front of other people. I asked if she would have any expectations of me, and said I didn't want to be nude in public. Not that I am miniscule or anything but I definitely don't meet the threshold for public nudity.
So we agreed to go. As the date neared I was looking forward but also getting nervous. I think I was feeling insecure more than anything. My dick isn't embarrassingly small when it is hard, maybe kind of a small average, but when it's soft it can go from okay to something that I definitely wouldn't want anyone seeing. And I was getting worried that she would try to get me to go nude. I reinforced to her that I didn't want to do that and she said she was completely fine with that. On the plane we talked about rules, what we would and wouldn't do. And as the flight went on, and we had more airplane bottles, we got more and more relaxed with the rules. It became a 5 hour foreplay session.
When we got to the hotel the vibe was very casual and easy going. I noticed that the resort staff were themselves dressed in a sexy way, which created a vibe. As we walked in I looked out to the left where there was a pool and I could see that a lot of people were naked. I couldn't see well due to where the sun was (in my face) but I could make out the general outline.
It was getting late in the day - maybe a half an hour before sunset, but it was still very hot out so my wife suggested that we go down to the pool and hang out at the pool bar for a while. We got ourselves set up in our room and headed down. The regular bar was packed but the swim up bar had a few open seats so we went in the water and went over to it. When we sat down, I noticed that the area that the bartenders made the drinks was up a few steps, and they would drop down a few steps to bring you your drink. I got to thinking about what a strange setup it was, and then I realized that it was designed to put the bartender's asses at your eye level, and I also noticed it was a very attractive bartending team. Both the women and the men. I definitely didn't object to the view, and before we knew it we were a few drinks in. There must have been a shift change or something since the people that were around the bar were slowly disappearing and there was a new group coming in.
There were 5 bartenders in the swim up bar. Earlier there were four women and one man, and all but one of them was attractive (one of the women was a little bit too overweight to be my type, although she had a nice face). The new shift reversed the ratio and now we had 4 men and one woman, with another woman coming in and out bringing supplies. The outfits for the women were very tight fitting but sheer cotton (or some similar fabrik) dresses, and the men wore tight fitting knee length white shorts and fitted polos. On a few of the men I could see that they were large and the outline of their cocks was pretty visible, and I was feeling a little uncomfortable at first. Maybe embarrassed is a better word. I kind of looked over at my wife to see if she was noticing and I saw her glance at the guy standing in front of us shaking a drink a few times.
He came down and poured my wife's drink and he asked where we were from (outside of Chicago) He said wow, I'm from Detroit. Over the next hour or so we had a conversation about how much the northern midwest had changed, and he seemed comforted by having a sense of home. My wife is in her late thirties and I am in my early forties, and I would estimate that the bartender is in his early or mid thirties. I say this because my wife asked me how old I thought he was, and I asked her why. She said she was just curious, but I thought there might be more to it. She was getting more and more flirtatious with him and became less polite about hiding her glances from me (but she was also getting more tipsy and I think she felt liberated by our conversation on the plane). And I will admit that as this went on, I started being turned on by what I was seeing and I was kind of reachin acceptance with the thought that something would happen.
It was late and we wound up going upstairs, but my wife was hot and bothered and we fooled around for a while. As I was using my hand on her I asked her if she liked Darren (the bartender) and she asked if it was okay if she said yes. And I just said it is not only okay, I want you to give me the first unfiltered thing that comes to your mind. She said yes. I asked what she liked about him and she said he had a very nice butt and legs. I asked what else, and she said that it looked like his zipper was having to work hard to stay closed with the pressure he was putting on it. We talked like that for a while longer and she had a very good orgasm. So did I.