I reached 70 years old. I had been married to my second wife for 25 years at that time. Typical of some older couples, I was still wanting sex and intimacy but my wife was done with all of that. This situation led to us having a discussion about my still wanting sex and what we could do about it.
My wife explained one more time that she wasn't going to have sex with me or anyone. I responded that I still wanted sex regardless. she then suddenly suggested that I try gay sex. That for her, me having gay sex wouldn't feel as threatening as me going out and doing it with another woman, I sat there stunned.
I was sitting there thinking, my head was spinning, when she added, "Besides, I've always thought you were feminine." Again, I was even more surprised. My brain at that point was somewhat fried and I really don't remember anymore of the conversation if there even was more.
For a couple of weeks I thought a lot about her suggestion. Yes, I was obsessed with wearing a cock cage and was always pestering her to be my key holder and control my cock. I guess that might be interpreted as being feminine. Possibly it could have been something to do with wearing pink panties sometimes when my cock was caged and dreaming about being forced to wear them all the time instead of men's briefs, but feminine? Why would she have said that to me? Anyway, I was horny and wanted sex and she gave me permission after all, as long as it was gay sex, so gay sex it was to be.
I wondered how one gets started with it so I googled it. I found that I might want to try a gay hookup app called Grindr. I downloaded the app to my phone and tried it out. At first I was overwhelmed with the guys and their profiles. I hadn't thought about being able to put out a profile that would describe what I was looking for exactly. I had thought I would be putting out only generic descriptive data. Being able to say exactly what I wanted was exciting, so after reading many other profiles I sat down to write mine.