You never know who might want to suck your cock.
I've lived in Corvallis for years but had never been into this particular office building downtown until Ben led me there. He opened the glass door into the modern lobby and pointed toward the elevator. "There's a roofdeck on the fifth floor," he said as we walked down the empty hallway. He pushed the button.
I'd met Ben just this morning on adam4adam; he worked downtown and I lived nearby so he sent me a friendly message. We exchanged some photos, and flirted on the chat while I waited for my husband at the doctor's office. Ben said he was thirty-two and only likes older men. He's married to a woman and his profile identifies him as bisexual. He's got a young son but isn't shy about his love of cock. His photos were seriously sexy—he has a fat uncut dick and a furry butt. And even on the chat I knew he had a sense of humor because he noticed that I was married to a man and wondered why I needed a blowjob: he asked if my husband's mouth was broken. I thought that was funny, and told him so, but explained that my husband had diabetes and a heart condition that affects his libido. Ben quickly responded: "I'll show you my libido."
So we met at a coffee shop near the park downtown; we walked around and talked a bit. Ben looks five years younger than thirty-two; he's wearing cut-off black jeans, an Oregon State t-shirt and a zippered hoodie, sneakers of some sort, and a black and white baseball cap. He's got blue eyes and blond hair and stands a few inches shorter than me. He's got an impish smile—he reminds me of one of my nephews—and a scruffy beard that's very sexy. And he likes to talk about gay sex. If I hadn't met him on adam4adam I wouldn't have guessed that he wanted to suck an old guy's dick.