I also discovered an auberge for men only in Montreal. My first time there, I was so nervous. I rented a room for 4 hours and lay on the bed watching porn with only a towel around my midsection. I left the door slightly ajar, not entirely knowing what to expect. Eventually, someone came in, closed the door, and after a bit of fondling sucked me off. On another visit, I came across 6 young fellows in the hallway. One of them very noticeably stared directly at my midsection. Although nothing happened with them, I often fantasized about having/being had by 6 guys at once.
My current thing is to go to a porn theatre in downtown Toronto. I usually go on a Sunday. The theatre is actually 3 sets of 2 theatres. 1st set of 2 is straight porn. 2nd set is gay porn. Last set is bi or anal porn. Each theatre seats between 16 β 24 people (although I usually see 6 β 8 people there. Although I like straight porn best, the 3rd set has a small alcove at the back that is somewhat private. I sit there in the aisle seat and pull my cock out. Usually someone will stand beside me and start jerking themselves. This often leads to fondling and sucking. Other guys might see the action & watch or join in.
My fave guy to suck is a young smooth oriental. I've had him several times and lately we got together again after an absence of several months. He will usually play with me first, then suck me a bit and finally present himself to me. I suck him eagerly because I know what he likes and he is gentle with my mouth. (Some guys can be quite painful, pulling hair or twisting nipples while they are being sucked.) He also lowers his pants enough that I can fondle his balls and ass β I'm not a great fan of sucking cock only. At one point, when we weren't as familiar with each other, I grabbed his ass while I was sucking him to pull him into me. His gasp was enough to tell me that I had moved our relationship up a notch or three. During our last encounter, we kissed each other on the lips. Some of you may choke on that but for me, as long as he has a smooth face, I'm good with it.
Since that last encounter with him, I fantasize about him almost every night. Perhaps next time, I'll turn him around (he stands in front of me) and kiss his ass while I stroke him. Depending on his reaction, I might even put my tongue in his ass. I might also try my cock against his ass. If he had someone else stroking or sucking him at the same time, that would be great. If we had someone else watching us, that would be even better.