I first started going to porn theatres when I was about 32. At that time I was on a buying trip for my company & had to travel to Montreal. I had always been a bit shy with women and as a result hadn't had a lot of dealings with them. I was always (and still am) curious about anything & everything to do with sex.
Since then, I have gone to porn theatres in Montreal & Toronto and once in Chicago. When I first started, conventional theatres were starting to loose business and some were changing to porn films. Over time, they have mostly closed, to be replaced by much smaller, purpose built theatres.
Over 20 plus years, I have seen and discovered many things about myself & others. I have found that I like to watch others & be watched by others. A 3some or more-some is fantastic! I have seen a guy taking it up the ass, many guys getting a blowjob (both from girls & guys), and girls in porn theatres.
At first, I told myself that as long as I was on the receiving end of a bj, I wasn't gay. After all a bj is the same whether performed by a guy or girl. Over time, I have discovered that I also like to fondle guys' cocks and especially suck them. I have had my cock in a guy's ass more than once but have never been on the receiving end (although I have fantasized about it). Currently, I have accepted that I am what I am without putting a label on myself. Although I prefer women, sex with guys is an awful lot easier to come by and a lot less complicated. For myself, the idea of watching and being watched is a big factor.
When I first went on a buying trip to Montreal, I started by going to strip clubs. (at that time, Montreal was awash with them). I remember that I was extremely nervous about going into them, afraid that someone would see me (although I was about 600 miles from home), to the point where I walked by the entrance several times before I got up the nerve to go in. Eventually, I became more relaxed & familiar with them. I found that they could differ considerably, by pricing, location, and by what they offered & frowned upon. However, the women were all the same with all clubs offering a good selection of body types/hair colour and costumes/themes.