By the time I was in my middle twenties my experiences with sex had expanded dramatically. I had started with girls and also had had oral sex with several guys. No one knew about that as being bi was pretty much unheard of and I was certainly not telling any of my friends. My steady girl friend at the time, actually my fiancΓ© a few years younger than me was finishing her last year of university in another city and so although we got together most week ends at her place in Toronto there were times when she was really busy or I was really horny and I went looking for some fun with casual hook ups with guys.
This was all before the internet so finding possible contacts while trying to remain in the closet was a continual problem. ON one of my trips to the city hall washroom I saw a new sign on a stall that said there was a man who wanted to experience being blown by another man for the first time. He had left a phone number there and I memorized it before leaving.
That night about 9pm I called the number and asked for Jim. He said it was him on the phone and asked what I was calling about so with some nervousness I told him of finding the number in the bathroom. He then asked if I wanted to give him a blow job and when I said I could do that he started asking about my age, what I looked like, how many times I'd done that etc.
I told him pretty much the truth, that I had been with about 8 guys before that and that I liked women too but had realized that I also liked being with men on occasion. He wanted to be sure I understood that he didn't intend to return the favour if I gave him a blow job. He told me he was married but that he had fantasized about a man blowing him for a long time and was looking to fulfill his fantasy. I said that would be fine and he gave me directions to get to his place. He told me his wife worked as a bartender and that if I could get there before 10pm he would meet me at the back of his house where there where there was a patio door into his living room. He explained that he would be inside in the dark waiting and that all I had to do was go in and he'd be on a couch right beside the door.