Mixed Bathhouse Thoughts

Demonstrating why Literotica needs a bisexual section.

My first visit to this bathhouse on a mixed day happened a year ago, a truly amazing sexual experience. Expecting the same to occur again was unrealistic, but if a return visit was even half as good, it would be well worth it. Seeing a special on train tickets plus having residual curiosity whether Tuesday would be different from Monday tempted me to return.

This bathhouse's marketing has shifted since my discovering that it was not exclusively male, as most of the web references call it a 'swinger's club.' In some ways, this could be considered almost deceptive. Starting with the fact that most sex clubs do not particularly allow bi sex, much less gay sex.

Generally, a swinger's club has an area to dance, something resembling a real kitchen or nice buffet, and people do not normally get naked directly before entering the public spaces. My understanding of sex clubs is essentially second hand, though it includes talking to women who have been, and reading various descriptions over the years.

Though such clubs are places where sex happens, it appears to rarely resemble the openly direct style of a male only sauna, where a stranger can be going down on you literally one minute after leaving the locker area, as I have personally experienced. Sexy lingerie plays no role at the baths, nor things like heels. Plus there is a sense of freedom that does not really resemble a sex club, where the number of partners is much more restricted in terms of women it seems. At a typical bathhouse, having sex with multiple men is easy, as basically all visitors within are potentially available.

Enjoying mixed day a year ago here involved a woman who definitely fell under the spell of a bathhouse just like a man does. The first time I saw her was in the public shower area, reaching for a man's hand to put between her thighs, another man behind her, with a man on each side playing with a gorgeous soapy, big nippled tit. This being a bathhouse, though no longer male only, of course I watched a horny woman getting pleasured just like a man would at a male only sauna.

The game continued, later playing with her slippery pussy with two other men in a dim sauna, aware that several men had very likely done the same thing, a fantastically naughty thrill playing with such a hot shared woman. A truly kinky turn on for me, as I find a woman who has sex with multiple men irresistibly sexy.

Following that encounter, having had a beer and smoked half a joint, I next found her in front of a crowd on the floor of the porn room, being watched as men played with with her tits and pussy. I joined in, having already kissed her feet while playing with her pussy in the sauna.

Three of us played with her for a while, oiling her body while sharing it. I would offer her spit covered nipple to one or the other, our hands on her thighs and at her soft slit, or the reverse. Later, I was the second of three men to eat her pussy in front of an audience, then watched her fucking, looking at her face reflecting how much she was loving his cock. Followed by two men cumming on her, one over each tit.

Due to the train schedule, I needed to leave, but as it happened, her locker was coincidentally right next to mine. When she was first walking around, she wore a towel. Now she was naked as we talked a bit before I left. She was the first woman I had ever had group sex with, and plainly still turned on. She joked that the visit had been so good, she planned to return tomorrow and just keep going. Smiling, saying I understood that desire, saying good bye while utterly delighted to have met a woman who enjoyed the baths just like a man.

Which is part of why the changed description amused me, as swinger clubs do not appear to have anywhere the same free wheeling group sex so common in bathhouses. On the other hand, the sauna owners would not want to scare off any straight men or women who might be hesitant to visit a bathhouse, but who would definitely pay a quarter of a normal swinger club admission. The price for women on mixed days being less than half that of a man, closer to 1/3 of the normal admission for single women.

Subsequently, I did ask about mixed days at my local bathhouse, but in response, they were quite adamant that they were a gay sauna, where you almost could hear a rejection of women having sex here too, not merely saying how they won't do that, and have no plans in the future.

This is something of a specific subject, which we enjoyed chatting about for a while. My local bathhouse is truly an excellent sauna, while the other one is cramped, not really nice though just as clean. The person behind the counter said that having mixed days was about financial desperation, mainly trying to get straight guys to show up. He seemed to ignore bi men, though it was plain that was my preference.

There is more than a grain of truth to dismissing bi men as a market segment, particularly compared to how a gay sauna changes when many visitors are strictly straight, not particularly curious about or interested in having sex with men. This in contrast to bi men looking for sex and having no problem finding it easily inside a gay sauna.

Leading to the one thing I truly misjudged that first visit. My assumption being that even if there were no women, at least it was still a bathhouse, so sex would be easily available. As it turned out, only at the start did it feel like a bathhouse, approaching the men around a woman in the showers, already stroking. Watching was hot, without actually touching her.

She knew I had a hard cock, and saw how a man began stroking me, an incredible thrill. For the first time, a woman saw me letting a man stroke my erect cock as she humped a hand, a cock sliding along her ass crack. However, nothing else like that happened, and I did not see anyone else having public sex, though a couple of cabins were closed.

Another difference between women at a sauna and a sex club involves make up. Or more accurately its lack at a sauna, with me very much preferring women without make up to look at nude - or have sex with. There is something about natural beauty I cannot resist, and a sauna is much more likely to offer it. This may not be that important, since it is true that a swingers club has more women as guests thus more variety, compared to less than a handful of women at this sauna.

Basically, a place where people looking for sex are naked from the start appeals to me, and having it available for women to experience remained intriguing enough to indulge a repeat visit. Particularly at a total cost easily half the admission to a real swinger club for a single man.