This is a story of experiences I have had in my life and experiences that I would love to have.
My wife and had arrived at a point in our lives when everyday activities no longer revolved around our children. There was a time when we couldn't conceive of this ever happening but then, as the years went by, came the realization that it was a good thing. Our children needed, and wanted, their independence and we needed, and wanted, ours. This seems to be a point in a lot of couple's lives when they realize that the children were the glue that kept them together.
After the children leave and the couple is left alone, there is nothing but silence between them and divorce is almost inevitable. We were lucky... very lucky. After 20 years of marriage we still loved each other which, in and of itself, doesn't necessarily guarantee the success of a marriage. A couple can still love each other but not be compatible. The difference was we were still in love. Whether alone or in a crowded room we enjoyed being with each other. One of our greatest joys was getting into bed with each other at night. To be alone.
My wife and I have always had at least a good sex life...never bad. Sometimes great...sometimes awesome. Considering her background of being brought up by parents who may have only had sex three times, she turned out amazing. Intimacy did not come naturally to her where as I seem to feed off of it. It is part of my makeup. My wife had never had an orgasm until we met. I, on the other hand, don't think I ever went more than a couple of days without having one...from the age of 10. Throughout our marriage we had times the typical ups and downs that couples have...money issues...busy times...really busy times but we never really argued.
Perhaps it was because my wife would probably run off crying as soon as it started. She doesn't like conflict as she had a lot of "passive-aggressive" conflict in her life growing up. I like to think, looking back now, that it was because we respected each other. We didn't want to back each other into a corner or make the other feel bad just so we could feel better. Simply put, at least from my perspective, we wanted to make each other happy and really wanted the best for each other.
My wife was, and is, willing to try most things once when it comes to sex. Except for S&M or anal she is good to go. I respect and appreciate that. She seems to actually enjoy giving me blow jobs and playing with my penis. The playing part happens almost every night. I don't have an orgasm every night but she does play around a lot. It seems to relax her and who am I to complain? We love touching each other.
There are times when she will play with my penis (penis when it is soft and cock when it is hard) or my ass for half an hour and then go off to sleep. This might seem strange but if I get my cock played with every night I think I can handle it. Handling it is also another amazing part of our relationship. She has no issues with me masturbating when I need to. If she isn't entirely in the mood I take care of things while she helps out...almost as a cheerleading section. I love it when she runs her hands all over me as I am jerking off running her fingers from my balls, along my taint to my anus. I keep myself extremely clean so nothing is off limits on my body. When I am close to cumming she will increase the pressure of her finger on my anus sending shivers up my spine - sending me over the top. I absolutely love it. She helps me get off and I get to jerk off. A win/win situation.
Blow jobs...she is great at them. Sometimes she will suck on my cock while we are watching TV in bed. She doesn't swallow and I am fine with that. This means I get more blow jobs. She has a great finishing technique where she would suck on my cock just to the point of my orgasm and then finish me off with her hand while sucking and licking the underside of the head of my cock. I love to watch my cum shoot out while her beautiful lips are working that perfectly sensitive spot. Once in a while when we are showering she will suck me off and then let me cum on her face. I...love...it.
We have a great sex life and if nothing changes I will die a happy man...
The rest of the story deals with another way in which we are very different than most couples. I think that it has to do with the fact that my wife is very confident in our relationship and trusts me completely ...OR...it possibly is because she is a closest voyeur and likes to live that life through me. She enjoys some porn to a certain degree and, on occasion, really enjoys erotic literature.
She also allows me a certain amount of freedom to explore another area of my sexuality that I am sure a lot of people also fantasize about but never admit. I am also sure many people have also acted on this but will go to their graves without telling anyone about it. This is what my story is about. Part of it actually happened and part of it is what I would like to see happen. Am I writing this to turn my wife on? Absolutely! Am I writing this to also get her thinking about what could happen? Maybe...
Many years ago, just after we were married, my wife and I lived in a small house that had a hot tub. It was a rental house and I loved that hot tub. It was in an area where it was very secluded and none of the neighbours could see it. I am very much a nudist and really only enjoy hot tubs if I can be naked in them. This worked perfectly for me.
We would have friends over once in a while and would enjoy sitting in the hot tub with them - although unfortunately it was with bathing suits on. Still it was fun. One of the couples that we had over were from out of town so they would stay overnight when they did visit. All very innocent of course - that was until the night that changed everything.
The four of us were sitting in the hot tub until it got the point where both our wives got over heated and decided to get out and go to bed. My friend and I decided to stay for a while - a long while. I'm pretty sure we were in the tub for about an hour after the women left. We were also sure that they had gone to bed as the lights were out in the house. At that point I was done with wearing my bathing suit so I asked my friend if he minded if I took it off.
We had been friends for a few years so I didn't see an issue with it and neither did he since he took his off as well. The tub had the lights on beneath the water but, with the jets going, I could just see below the surface. As I mentioned the tub was very secluded (with a privacy screen) and it was dark out. We felt pretty relaxed. I have to admit that I was getting a little horny with this scenario.
I kind of wished that the women would come back and, finding our suits on the ground, would start a Penthouse letters story. Didn't happen. Over the years my friend and I had joked about sex and about jerking off (as most guys do) and we both knew it was a regular part of our life. As I mentioned I could see a bit below the surface and was pretty sure that my friend was getting a hard on. Maybe it was the jets. I asked him if he was getting one - his reply was if I keep talking like that he will.
In a matter of seconds the scenario went from me hoping the women would come back to wondering where this would go. I had in my childhood played the old game of "you show me yours and I show you mine" with one of my friends but never really considered anything else. It wasn't hard (pun intended) to see that my friend was indeed becoming erect. So was I. Those damn jets.
I decided to go for it. I told him that if he wanted to jerk off he could that I wouldn't mind at all. He asked if I would as well...um...yeah! He sat up on the edge and there was the first live erect penis (sorry ...cock) that I had seen since I was a kid.
I could tell right away that it was a little bigger than mine. I am right on average so I figured he must be about 6-1/2" or bigger. Looked impressive anyway. He was nervous and so was I. We didn't really know where to go from here. He literally decided to take matters into his own hands and got started. We moved closer to each other - facing each other - so we could cum onto the towel I laid out between us.
Admittedly I was pretty nervous so was having difficulty getting fully hard but he didn't seem to mind. After a couple of minutes of watching each other jerking off he stopped asked me if I would mind if he could touch me. I figured we had gone this far ...why not? He reached over and grabbed a hold of my semi-hard cock and started pulling on it.
Up until this point in my life I didn't really think that I would have the nerve to do this. I had to make a decision pretty quickly here as I don't think it was fair that I was having all of the fun...so I reached over and touched his cock. Very gently at first and then squeezed. It was very hard and was indeed bigger than mine although I don't remember having a problem with that. It felt rubbery and hard at the same time. It was very exciting.
I decided that I had to try something else since there was no way we could assume that we would ever have this chance again. I leaned down and ran my tongue along the underside of his cock. It felt very strange to be doing this but also pretty cool. I then leaned back and he leaned over and took my cock into his mouth. Wow -were we really doing this? We then went back to holding on to each other's cock slowly jerking back and forth.
His breathing became heavier and he must have been close to cumming as he asked me to let go. He said that he would prefer to get himself off - maybe to ease his, and possibly my, guilt.
We sat back and starting pumping keeping our eyes peeled to each other's dicks. Soon we couldn't hold back and came at the same time shooting onto the towel. It was awesome. After we finished, the inevitable embarrassment kicked in. We cleaned up very quickly and got dressed. We went into the house and went to bed. I had no idea how I would deal with it in the morning and was starting to feel a bit of guilt and concern about that. I went to bed and soon fell asleep.
The next morning my friend and I were able to pretend that nothing happened - it seemed that we both decided to ignore it. I past the first hurdle but knew that the big one was still ahead of me.