This incident happened approximately four years ago during December of 2016. At the time I was working as an adviser at a local college campus.
I was in my early thirties still, was in excellent shape physically, had an athletic body type, and had a clean shaven face. I am of average height and I'm African American with a caramel like skin complexion.
One day I had this really attractive gay mixed race African American/Latino guy in his early twenties by the name of Allen come in to my office for a scheduled appointment with me. He stood about 6 feet tall, was somewhat muscular and athletic in stature, and had curly hair. His voice was somewhat effeminate as were certain facial features and mannerisms of his which to me was a dead give away that he may be down to play.
At this point however I was attempting to stay professional. I introduced myself and asked what I may be able to help him with.
"I would like to know which classes I need to take in order to be able to transfer to the local university" he said enthusiastically. This was the typical situation I dealt with and I was able to answer his question with ease. During my spiel, I made sure to make deep and engaging eye contact while making flirtatious facial expressions. This conversation must have lasted no longer than five minutes although we were scheduled to meet for 30 minutes so I had extra time to work my magic.
"Do you have any more questions for me?" I had asked while hoping he would begin to ask personal questions.
"Yeah. Are you single? If so, are you gay"? he asked sheepishly.