It is at least 15 years ago since I started to chat with Paul on Flickr. Maybe even 20 years. I cannot remember anymore when it started exactly. Nor do I know who started and why. Fact is that it must have been the photography of one of us, that attract attention of the other. We both are fanatic photographers, we're both married to a lovely and beautiful wife (like we both still are) and those days we both had a decent account with nature. art and holiday photos (like we both still have).
Something else I cannot remember is when nudity became subject of our conversation. I have many friends on flickr, and with none of them I ever talked about my exhibitionist part and the nude self portraits I shoot. I always had a separate account and kept that out of the view of my "normal" friends. However, at a certain moment we found out that we both had an account where we posted nudes, and of course we added each other to our friends lists.
Again a few years passed, till we started to go one step further and began to exchange fantasies about having sexual contact. The photos we were exchanging began to become more and more explicit and I started to use my photoshop skills to illustrate our fantasies. We started to use skype and began nude video sessions, wanking together.