While traveling on business and out having dinner, I sat at a bar watching a hockey game on one of the screens playing sporting events as I ate my meal. A guy who appeared to be a fellow business traveler was next to me doing the same and we commented back and forth on the game. He looked to be a bit younger than me, maybe around fifty, whereas I was in my early sixties at the time. At one point I mentioned something about a particular move one of the players made.
"Wow, that's something I'd like to be able to pull off but it's way beyond my skill level."
He responded with, "Do you play on a team?"
"Yes, I play in a couple of leagues."
There was some surprise in his reaction to hearing that. I guess it's my hair starting to go gray and, while I am in very good shape from my activity in sports, I'm clearly not a young guy who one might naturally associate with playing the game.
"Wow, two leagues?"
"Yes, it's great fun and a terrific workout. The guys and gals I play with are also really nice and a very high sense of camaraderie exists among us that makes it extremely enjoyable."
"The teams are coed?"
"Yup. I have a teammate who is married with a couple of kids who plays a great game," adding after a pause, "and she's pretty attractive, too."
He thought about that and then said, "That's neat. Are there separate locker rooms for men and women to get suited up?"
"No, we're all together and everyone acts in a way that doesn't offend anyone. The most exposed people get is down to their underwear usually."
We continued to watch the game and at one point he said, "I probably couldn't help checking out the women if I were in that situation."
I told him that I did just that and was very discrete about it.
We proceeded to finish our meals as we watched the game and after signaling to the bartender that he'd like another drink, he said as he looked straight ahead at the screen over the bar, "You know, I'd probably check out some of the guys, too."
I didn't know if he was sending a hint my way but I kind of automatically replied before thinking much about it, saying, "Yeah, I know what you mean".
We continued the sports banter and game watching and then he was kind of quiet for a bit, eventually looking over at me and saying, "We'll probably never see each other again so I'll take a shot here and hope to not offend you. How did you mean that when you said that you know what I mean?"
I hesitated and looked around gauging if there were others near enough to hear us and, seeing there weren't, I replied, "Well, since you're asking and we'll probably never see each other again, I actually have had some experiences with guys".
He smiled and said, "Me, too".
"Oh, that's interesting," came my reply as I signaled to the bartender that I'd like another drink.
We related to each other that while we were both married, we had found it enjoyable to have some guy-to-guy interaction every now and then and I indicated that business travel seemed to get me thinking about it and said to him, "Having the solitude of being off on my own in a hotel room provides some good time to explore the internet in privacy and check out chat sites."
"Yes, I know what you mean. That's just how it is for me, too," he said in reply.
We proceeded to discretely share our thoughts and turn ons for what we liked to do. "I am a rather mild guy in my activity as I am hugely concerned about staying healthy. I can find it quite enjoyable and satisfying to just be naked with someone who I find to be attractive and pursue a lot of touching, body contact and experiencing the ability to just take in being with each other," I told him.
He replied, "I get that but I can be very comfortable with guys who seem to have the same caution and sense to play safely so I am good with oral play and have even gone beyond that when I felt the other guy was very safe and precautions against disease were taken."
I replied by saying, "I've also enjoyed oral play when the situation was right for it but prefer to not go farther.". He asked why I felt that way and I thought for a minute and said that I thought maybe two things might influence that. "Well, I kind of view my activity with guys as a recreational type of thing that satisfies the periodic horny desires and I think maybe anal activity seems more like something in a romantic long-term committed relationship rather than just fun play. Since I'm married, I feel that keeping my play to the more mild, recreational elements is the right thing to do."
He said he totally got that line of thinking but he would selectively incorporate anal into his play providing he was able to feel comfortable and safe with the right person. "You ought to give it a try sometime. You may really like it.". We continued to talk and then he put the question out there. "Would you be interested in anything tonight?"
I told him about having had a bad experience a few months before with a really unappealing type of guy that caused me to swear off guy play activity but our discussion had me considering it. He was a normal looking guy who was in good shape, clean shaven professional type and was more a smooth guy versus hairy and seemed to be just a regular fellow that I'd associate with in the course of my everyday life.
He said, "It's totally up to you and feel free to decline but I find you attractive and thought it was worth a try to ask."
"You know, why not? All of our talk here has me in the mood for some fun," I said as I put my credit card out to settle my bill while I stood up from the barstool.
"I'm Alex," he said as he also stood and worked a credit card from his wallet.
"Carter, here. Nice that we both had dinner and hockey on our minds and found our way into the conversation here tonight.". He offered to host in his room and we decided to go back to his hotel as that was within walking distance of the restaurant. It was a nice extended stay type of property and we walked without saying much, probably both kicking around in our minds the prospect of what might play out when we got behind a closed door.
We came to his room and Alex used his key card to open the door and I followed him inside. There was a living room at the entry and a separate bedroom beyond it, everything neat and orderly, similar to the way one would find it on check in but with some of his things set about in it. This was appealing to me as I am a person who is comfortable in a clean and orderly setting and keep my room neat when I travel. I had gone to the hotel room of a guy once that was a total mess and when I walked in and saw disarray with clothes on the floor, bed pulled apart and things scattered all over the counters it turned me off pretty fast and I ended that encounter before anything got started. I figured that if the guy was that messy and careless with how he kept his hotel room, perhaps that approach extended over into his sexual activity and that would be a risk I was not willing to take.
With everything seeming comfortable to me, I took off my jacket and we did a bit of small talk as we stood in the living area. Then Alex moved behind me and started running his hands on my shoulders and I stood there trying to relax and enjoy the feelings. It felt good as he massaged my shoulders and soon I was feeling comfortable with the situation. He continued that and after a bit I turned to face him and began to rub his shoulders and also ran my hands down his chest and sides. This progressed to us moving close to each other and start to hug and press against each other and feeling each other through our clothes. It felt very good to feel him against me and as we pressed ourselves against one another I was sure that he felt the bulge in my pants as I did his.