I love to do nude drawing (or nude paintings). In the art world they call it Figure Drawing or Figure Painting. I am involved in a Figure drawing club, which is enjoyable, but the class is very professional like a college art class. What I mean is the poses are never sensual. Think of it as a Playboy magazine pose, rather than a Penthouse magazine kind of pose. I always learn a lot in those classes, and enjoy being around other artists, but sometimes I just want to have the freedom to do a sensual, very sexy, pose.
So, occasionally, I run an ad on craigslist for a nude model that I can draw on my own. I post the ad sporadically, basing it on how busy I am in my everyday life. I might run it for a few weeks, then not run it for 6 weeks. I list it to attract couples, females, or males. I am specific to say in the ad that I really prefer people who are in shape, or close to it. And, I also say that I prefer shaved.
Most of my responses on craigslist come from guys. I'm betting I average 80% guys, 15% couples, and 5% females. When a guy responds, I have learned to email back and forth with them many times. I had learned to do this after one previous negative experience that I had with a guy. The negative experience that I had was with a very strange acting guy, who lived in a bad area of town, and was dressed in skin tight leotards. He had gay porn on the tv when I arrived. It just weirded me out. So, after that experience, I became extremely picky, as I started "weeding out" the guys that responded to my ad. Now I turn down about 95% of them. So, I have learned that by emailing back and forth, and asking questions, has helped me not have any more negative experiences with males.
The only other time that I accepted a guy (after I had learned how to weed them out) was a guy who I ended up having a very good experience. He was a nice guy, lived in a decent area of town, and was easy to chat with while I drew him. It was a pose with the guy sitting, with his legs open. His cock was not hard in the drawing. He had on a cowboy hat and cowboy boots with nothing else on. He wanted me to draw him as if he was sitting on a bale of hay. So, I googled a picture of a bale of hay, and added that into my drawing instead of the chair he was actually sitting on. He was happy with the drawing, and so was I. I posted a copy of it on my flickr page and it was extremely popular.
Recently, I decided to run the ad again after about a 2 month break. I got an email response from a guy that said he thought it would be a lot of fun to be the model. He said he was 5'10, and 170 lbs.. We emailed back and forth numerous times just to get to know each other, until I reached a point that I felt comfortable with him.
EMAILS
As I was getting closer to scheduling him, I asked if he had an idea of what kind of pose he wanted to do. He emailed back that he would leave that up to me. He said he would do any kind of pose I wanted. I then told him in another email that I wanted to try to start emphasizing the sensual side of guys when I do the drawings. I explained that with women they have lots of areas on their body that make them look sensual, like tits, ass, and pussy. So for women, almost any pose has a sensual look to it. Then I told him that I have learned that a naked guy can be rather boring unless you pose him in a certain way that emphasizes his cock in some way. (Like the naked cowboy on the bale of hay) I then explained that I was not gay or bi, so don't get me wrong, but I definitely appreciate seeing a guy in a sensual pose and with a cock that is ½ hard, or ¾ hard. I said that it makes a very sensual pose for a guy. I told him that I wasn't requiring that, but was just suggesting that it would make for a hotter pose. Then I said "But, that is up to you."
He emailed back that he was open to whatever I wanted, and that the idea of emphasizing his cock in a sensual way was not a problem at all. He agreed that it would make a much hotter drawing. He then said that he would not have a problem being hard during the drawing because it was a "turn on" to him to be naked in front of someone else. In the same email he told me he was shaved (He hadn't told me that yet) and that he doesn't like to shave himself because he feels he does not do a very good job. He said he had a woman who did that for him once every couple of weeks.
I was surprised at his comment about a woman shaving him. It sounded hot, and it also made me very curious. So, in my email back to him, I told him that it had made me curious. I asked him to tell me more about that. I also told him that I thought that it would be hot to be able to have someone do that to me. I said "I know I would love that, so I understand why you do." I then asked him if it led to sex when she shaved him. His email back to me said "Yes," and then he shared with me a few things that usually happens. (usually lots of oral sex between him and her)
PREPARATION EMAILS FOR THE MEETING
So after numerous emails, I scheduled a day and a time to meet with him. When it came down to the day before our art session, I decided to check back with him to get directions to his house and to be sure we were "still on." His return email said "Yes, I am looking forward to it," and then said "But, I haven't been able to get with my lady friend to be shaved since you and I last emailed each other." Then he made a somewhat daring comment in the email by saying "You can do it for me before our art session if you want to, that is if you don't mind doing it. Plus, if you want, I will shave you first, so you know what it's like, since you were curious about it."
Again, I don't consider myself bi, but I have always appreciated seeing a hot shaved cock on a guy who is at least within 10-15 lbs of being in shape. I have watched guys on cam before and found that I can get turned on watching some of them. I have also looked on websites for naked guys to draw, and have noticed that a few of the pictures I saw turned me on.
I would probably call myself "Situationally bi." What I mean is I could see myself playing with a guy but it would have to be the right kind of situation. These 4 things would need to happen: He needs to be a decent looking guy, have a nice looking shaved cock, had a good personality, and while I was with him something turns me on. Those four things could make me enjoy playing around. Otherwise, I am not interested.
You might say "Well, isn't that bi?" My answer would be twofold. Every bi guy I have talked to is ready to have sex "in an instant" with most guys. They can meet a guy and instantly have sex with them. Secondly, they tend to look at guys in a sexual way. I am not saying that all bi guys are like that, I am just saying that this is what I have noticed with most bi guys I have ever talked to. In my case, I do not fit either of those two categories. There is no way I could instantly have sex with a guy, and I don't look at guys as sexual opportunities.
Anyway, let me get back to our last minute emails about our upcoming meeting. I answered his comment about me shaving him or him shaving me, with "I may let you shave me. I have thought about your comment about being shaved by your woman friend several times since you told me about it. It sounds very hot. Of course, I would prefer a woman do that to me, but just to have the experience, I may let you do it. As far as me shaving you, let me see how things go when I get there. I have never touched a guy before, so I will have to see how comfortable I feel with you. Is that okay with you?"
He emailed back with "Sounds great. See you at 10 am tomorrow."
THE ART SESSION
I gathered up my easel, drawing pencils, sketch book, and then headed over to the guy's house the next morning. When I arrived, he introduced himself with his first name only. He said he was Gary. I saw that he was a decent looking guy, and seemed to be in decent shape. He was not muscular, which I really did not want, anyway. In my artwork I like to portray a normal looking person that you might see on an everyday basis, not necessarily a muscular person.
He gave me a quick tour of his house so that I could get an idea of what scene to use for the pose. I decided that the living room couch might be a good pose area, so we settled into that area.
We talked for awhile as we both were trying to get more comfortable with each other. He asked how many of these I have done. I told him that this was fairly new for me. I had only done 10 people so far. I told him that I rarely do guys, and that I had only done 2 so far. Then I told him that I had also met with 7 couples, but all of them but 1, wanted me to just do the wife while the husband watched. Then, I said "But, I did do one couple where they posed together on their bed." Then I said "I have only done one woman so far."
I explained why I do not get to do many women. I said "They do not know me personally, and I think they worry that I might be some weirdo who is going to hurt them." Then I said "If they knew me personally, I bet I would have women lined up to do it. I believe there are a lot of women who would love to pose nude if it was a situation where they felt they could trust the artist, and felt comfortable with them."
He asked if I knew why most people want to model nude. I said "It is a combination of many things. Some want the nude art on the wall of their bedroom."
Then I said "Others, like in the case with couples, are situations where the husband convinces the wife to do it as a way of opening her up to future things like doing 3 somes, or even possibly having sex with the artist while he (the husband) watches. I have two husbands who, I believe, are trying to take things that direction right now because both have had me back for another drawing. Each time I come back, there are more hints from him in front of his wife. Plus, I have noticed that the wife is getting more comfortable with me. So, we will see where that goes in the future."