This is a true story. Names are changed.
It was several years ago on a relative non-descript summer's night and I found myself surfing the personals at Craigslist before they got scared about being labeled as a site that helped in human trafficking and I came across someone relatively close by looking for a quick liaison with a no-nonsense approach to giving oral in a M4M situation. I live in a small college town, mostly in the middle of nowhere and it's the kind of throwback town that you have to know where it is and how to get there as it's not all that easy. The town has a microcosm of people, those affiliated with the university who work there, are faculty members and those that grow up there and continue to live there, but make their living elsewhere. Considering this particular posting with listed with that town's name in the subject I was immediately intrigued about who could be on the other end of that posting so I sent an email offering my services and asking for a better description of who was on the other end.
The reply came back rather quickly, "45, black, hung."
Considering where I started this journey years ago as a straight man to someone with a great appreciation of a BBC I could not help but be intrigued. After a few more emails I was invited over and given an address. Like I said, it's a small town so I quickly looked up the address on the county auditor's website to see who lived there, as I would suspect that I would know this guy as we were very similar in age and the house in question came back as registered to Thomas Williams who I had known since grade school. We didn't necessarily run around in the same circle but were always friendly when we saw each other and since we both had jobs in manufacturing we often talked shop when we saw each other.
I know had a decision to make. If I went over, then my whole bi-discretionary act in a small town was open to being exposed, but on the other hand Thomas was about 6'2" tall with a wide thick football players body and I absolutely believe him when he said he was hung. My sexual appetite this night (and pretty much every night) was off the charts so knowing that I would be giving away a critical secret about myself I headed over. I also knew that there was zero doubt I would be able to keep Thomas' secret as well. The town without the university isn't very big so it was less than a five minute drive from my house. I pulled up and parked on the street and as I approached his one story L shaped house by walking down the driveway I could tell that there was someone sitting on a chair in front of the garage shrouded in darkness.
As I walked closer I said, "Hi Tom" and was quickly greeted by a surprised voice on the other end.
"Yeah.. hi.. who's that?" as I continued to close the gap until we were both standing face to face and he stepped out of the shadows and we revealed ourselves to each other.