I had always thought about how hot it would be to see my wife with another man. I pushed the limit one night and took her to a local swingers club. Told her why not see what it is all about and leave. That night actually went well, we did eventually get naked and play with each other in a group room. She suggested doing that and was receptive to it. A couple was next to us and the guy played with her tits while his wife sucked on him. We left shortly after and she said that was kind of fun and would like to do it again. I was a bit surprised but pleased. We became regulars at the club for a few years. She liked the aspect of being watched and touching other men in front of me. It was a turn for both of us. She was not into the ladies, tried it once and swore it off. We typically played with single men, she would do everything up to no penetration. It came close a few times but she would cut them off as soon as his cock touched her pussy. Frustrating for me and I am sure the men as well. But she gave great blow jobs and would occasionally swallow.
A few times I set up a massage for her either at home or at a guy's place. I always gave the massage therapist the permission to do whatever he wanted to try. Sometimes something happened or not, it was all about his attitude and technique. One night I came across a guy on Craigslist and seemed like I had seen him on a Swingers site. He was a legit massage therapist. I made arrangements with him to meet us Saturday night to massage us both. I told him my wishes but left it to him to see what he could do. The first time it was pretty straight. He told me that he could get her there if we did a couple of more session. Also told me she was getting wet. I asked how he knew, told me that he could hear it as she opened her legs. He told me that he did want her. He was about 20 year's younger, tall and great shape. She was very receptive to taller men. We met a couple of more times and not much happened.